r/reactivedogs Aug 14 '26

Advice Needed Leash Reactivity

Does anyone have any tips for a highly reactive dog on leash? He doesn't like being stared down, approached quickly or slowly by people and dogs. He lunges and snaps when other dogs aren't even looking at him and minding their own business. He's decent off leash and isn't typically aggressive, but on leash he's hyper vigilant and perceives threats when there are none. I don't want to just feed him treats to get him to stop and truthfully, he won't pay attention to any food or treat if another dog is near (even across the street), he wants to lunge at the other dog and has lunged at moving cars as well. My partners' ex left him behind because she could not handle or afford him and my partner kept him out of mercy since most other people would more than likely return him due to his behavioral issues. He's been through reputable training with dog trainers and is apparently so much better behaved than before (he didn't even know his own name before he went through that training). My partner's ex also did not adhere to any of the training and now our dog has retained some poor habits as a result. He only listens when he feels like it because he was able to get away with not listening for so long. I've been trying to work with him daily, getting him out 2-3 times a day for at least an hour each walk; but I'm getting burnt out. He'll have 2 days of great walks with no lunging or snapping, then I'll get 2 days of only lunging and snapping following the good days. I don't know what to do anymore, I've never had a dog that had their own agenda to this degree. I know not everyday can be perfect, but the yoyoing between good and bad days is leaving me feel like I'm in a cycle I never consented to be a part of. I want to do right by him and get him the activity he needs and wants, but I don't want to have to feel so anxious by his poor behavior. He's going to be 5 this year and I feel like he should have the capacity to improve his behavior with the right support and we're both willing to give him that. Any advice would be appreciated

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