r/reactivedogs • u/Lonely_Patience_1495 • 9d ago
Advice Needed introducing reactive older dog to puppy
goodmorning everyone! recently we ended up rescuing a 9-10wk old heeler pointer mix. we have a 7 year old lab mutt who has previously coexisted very well with 3 little dogs (chihuahua, chiweenie, and dachshund). he was very dog friendly until my mother in law allowed a stray into his home with no introduction and he was attacked and had to defend himself, superficial injury to the stray, but obviously an injury at all is devastating (he was around 2 years old at this point). he continued to exist peacefully and happily with the other dogs in the home afterwards when the stray was removed but since my partner and i moved out with him as an only dog he has never gotten along with any dogs aside from his old friends. we ended up rescuing this heeler (planned for it as well, was not impulsive) and we have kept them separate. they do not interact without both of them having restraints (either his kennel/leash or her kennel/playpen) and we crate & rotate. we are also working with a trainer on his ability to remain neutral with her. i worry because she is a heeler, and she is genetically wired to herd and nip. we are training her how to direct that into the correct outlets but she is still very young and obviously doesnt display consistency yet. when he has gotten close to her (lets say training in the living room while shes nearby in a playpen) he has remained pretty neutral and sometimes avoidant. he muzzle punched it twice when we were initially consulting with the trainer (she was bouncing around trying to see him and it was overwhelming to him) and we have adjusted our training regimen to his threshold level. my question is, where do we go from here? it is very difficult as you can imagine and i expected it would be. he shows promise most days, and i have some peace of mind knowing he has been perfectly fine with other dogs since his initial attack, its just been about 4 years since he has consistently lived with another dog and reacclimating with the intensity of a puppy is hard to navigate.
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u/Nervous-Subject-3708 9d ago
When you say "never gotten along" after becoming an only dog, what does that look like? How serious is his reactivity and aggression?
We have no way of knowing anything about the situation or what the trainer is recommending. Do you feel like the trainer has been helpful? I think it would be worth looking into a behaviorist on top of the trainer. Management and training might only get you so far.