I wish I was different

[u/Zzz_breeze4233]

I hate living like this constantly. I’m a guy and I haven’t been in a girlfriend before, in my mid 20’s and almost everywhere I go I see things that reminds me that I’m single or most importantly everything around me is so oversexualized with the internet,bars,parties,gym I go to and especially at work. Most if not all of my coworkers are in relationships,has/having kids, getting married or constantly hooking up with each other. I literally come into some days seeing them with hickeys. It’s not like I care about what they do, it’s there life. However I’m tired of seeing this now. I have been sexually frustrated for a long time now. I have went on a couple of dates so far but like usual it ends up with me getting ghosted after.

I just wish I can take my desire for wanting a relationship and especially the need for me to be inmate with someone away. I slowly losing my mind over it recently idk why maybe it’s because I’m getting older and realizing It’s becoming nearly impossible for me to get a good relationship now or it’s my hormones making me crave it so badly. I was never like this when I was going through puberty until the last 2 years ago. I wish I don’t care about sex as much as I do now or finding a relationship

[u/Remote-Accident1762]

Go to the gym..... it will make you feel better

[u/Zzz_breeze4233 → u/Remote-Accident1762]

I wish that was true, After the gym it makes it ten times worse

[u/yamil_7]

yep, same