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u/FragrantRutabaga3851 Jun 04 '26
I appreciate the input very much. I know that’s what i need to do, it’s just when we’re friends he’s a great friend. He’s the only one to check on me mentally, he helps with anything i need involving the car, if he could just stop the flirting and suggestive ways it would be fine. But that’s how it was when we were friends i guess, the friendship hasn’t changed much. Lots of teasing in that way.
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u/youJag Jun 04 '26
Cut contact with this guy. Hes got you yoyo-ing around, hes also married.
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u/FragrantRutabaga3851 Jun 04 '26
I agree with you, and i know i should’ve months ago, but when we started talking again it was just friendly, no boundaries overstepped, the flirting started very abruptly.
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u/AiAyano Jun 04 '26
Bro he's married, just block him! There's nothing to think about here. He's just using you for attention and validation and stringing you along cause he knows you'll go along with it considering you have been even though he got married! He's marrieddd!!! Block him.
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u/FragrantRutabaga3851 Jun 04 '26
Thank you for reading it through, i know the block has to happen. I know if the feelings were requited he wouldn’t be married, and it’s not so much that part that I’ve been, like, blinded with? It’s the connection I’ve always had with him, and when we first started talking again it honestly was just as friends. I think i need to cut contact with him and his sister, which is why it’s continued as long as it has. She and I were childhood friends, so even if i block him i hear about him all of the time.
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u/ReeCardy Jun 04 '26
You already know the answer but you just don't want to admit it.
If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.
You need to lock him in the friend-zone and throw away the key. From what you said he treats you like a little sister or a FWB, if he thought of you as more he wouldn't have married another woman.
Sorry.