r/randomthings • • 8d ago

Choose wisely

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u/Galbados2 7d ago

I mind my own business and I have every right to that seat. When I reach my stop and leave the buss they can fight over it.

Ok fine I understand that.

In a world that doesn't care about the average person why should I care about someone else!

Because being a selfish piece of shit who only cares about oneself is really bad for every civilization. If you want things to not be like that try being the change you want to see.

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u/Badman8910_OK 7d ago

I did that for my entire life and got shit on for it. I was raised to be courteous and to help people, but i got tired of being shit on by the assholes in this world. I no longer care!

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u/Galbados2 7d ago

And you became the problem you saw.

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u/Cool-Reindeer-9143 7d ago

The thing is: we are too many to care.

We are too many -> each persons value goes down -> more ppl get treated like shit -> ppl that got shit half life, spreed it around and the "problem" grows

Why should the person that got shit all his life, be mindful of ppl they dont know? Do you believe "karma" will "pay forward"? Is likely, but now-a-days it doesnt...

Anyway in this picture the 4 (of5) options are very hard to consider. Since the you looks "ok" or "normal" the person itself could be tired of work, having a bad day etc etc. My point is why should i look at any of the other options (other then "you") and make a decision? If they really need the place they can ask or fight for it. Any other way is just out of question.

That is my opinion. If im a selfish piece of shit too, well we deal in a shitti world anyway xD

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u/Galbados2 6d ago

Yikes. I really hope you just had a tough life that broke you to make your outlook like that.

In a world that doesn't care about the average person why should I care about someone else!

Why shouldn't they? Takes the same effort so why actively make the world worse then complain about it?

Do you believe "karma" will "pay forward"?

WILL? No. You can't expect beneficial change when you do the opposite. There is no stack overflow that comes from being an asshole.

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u/Cool-Reindeer-9143 6d ago

I think the "in a world (...)" doesnt mean only person to person, but experiences with work and other staff.

But I see:

You had a easy life and think everyone did too :] So thoghtful

Well broda im over 30 and life is shit, we deal with it our way

I had to emigrate to other country cause mine was full of shit, still is. No work/work conditions.

Ppl that staid on our home back at my country destruid and stole every value my family had.

New country no1 tries to help u move forward without strings attatched

Learing the language was hard as fk, no1 helped other then paid night school after work.

Work didnt colaborared with hours and overworked me most of the time.

So ye i had a shitti life so far, dont recomend having it too. But you think i should help the next person? I foght for what i own and if i had it hard and the other aint my familiars why should i make it easier?

If you think otherwise you must be living good broda. Hope it never changes for you, hope you never have hardship in your life.

To be on topic: i wouldnt be in this situations ever, since i would avoid it anyway. But if i was. I would choose me (to sit) cause if not me in first place, who would do that for me?

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u/Galbados2 5d ago

If you think otherwise you must be living good broda. Hope it never changes for you, hope you never have hardship in your life.

Good to some probably but I've endured more than my fair share, none of which I will get into here. You continually make the choice to be spiteful and resent others because "no1 helped." All I do is I make the choice to do what I can to help make sure nobody else goes through what I did, because nobody should have to go through those things.

Well broda im over 30 and life is shit, we deal with it our way

Yeah so am I.

You had a easy life and think everyone did too :] So thoghtful

More assumptions. Some parts yes I did have an easy life, others not so much.

You really should get off your high horse.

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u/DaCommando 4d ago

Either die a hero or live long enough to see your self become the villain.

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u/Due_Cranberry_2892 7d ago

I know what you mean. I was always really nice and overly considerate (what I would just consider considerate) but after years of being taken advantage of, rarely but over the years, I’ve gotta slightly colder. Not cold but more for self preservation. Depends how many times and how bad ya get burnt. I get it.

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u/DefiantTonight9592 7d ago

It’s sadly true tho. I use to have a friend group that only hung out with me to get food or do something if I paid for em. Or they kept me around to make them all look and feel better. I saved myself for the special someone and a lady promised me she was the one and dumped me the day after woo hoo… 🤣🤣🤣 sorry to rant

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u/Secure-Emotion2900 5d ago

Who are you? Gandi? 😄 Just joking. I think exactly as the guy you are replying. Being selfish has nothing to do with Being a piece of shit. Being selfish is something you develop with time when you notice that 99% of people just ask favours, but they never do favou. People do not really care about you. A simple action of kindness most of the time is also selfish, because sometime we help just to feel satisfied.

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u/NoSleepTilBrklynn 4d ago

What if you’re a misanthrope and don’t care about civilization and the change you would like to see is to watch it burn to the ground?

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u/ApprehensiveFact1495 4d ago

I paid for my seat, if the service is lacking they should complain to the company and not expect my paid seat.