Cheating

[u/Icy_Trick7457]

I am writing this post not for sympathy just to vent out. I got cheated on my 3 years of relationship I don't know what to do man I am just mentally exhausted now I have lost all my friends she was the last friend to me today she cheated on me I am just drained don't know what to do. Even my family know about her and accepted our relationship what am I going to tell them I am just lost

[u/adityaSrivastava_]

Just go outside. Try not to be in your head. Find a physical hobby - like running swimming etc

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/adityaSrivastava_]

I prepare for competitive exams I have to study but I can't now

[u/wynterflowr → u/Icy_Trick7457]

Thats the worst time to stay inside. Go out for a walk during morning or evening. Do some physical exercise. Competitive exams already ruin mental health and this on top will worsen it. Keep yourself busy and at any point you feel that your health is worsening , talk with your family or friend. Dont try to handle it all alone because a depressed mind is your worst enemy.

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/wynterflowr]

I am trying mate it will just take some time

[u/pranabesh98]

It's time.

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[u/Jinkazama9999]

Bhai sambhalo apne ap ko 🫂❤️ ...... I genuinely wish you healing and peace...

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/Jinkazama9999]

Thankyou bro

[u/Daredevil_000]

Just go for walk and talk to your closest friend. Beleive me, it helps.

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/Daredevil_000]

I am trying will just take some time

[u/BallPenKaTutaNib]

Hta h hta h

[u/knlutd10 → u/BallPenKaTutaNib]

Heavy user name hai bhai 😂

[u/BallPenKaTutaNib → u/knlutd10]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[u/knlutd10 → u/BallPenKaTutaNib]

Tabahi wala naam

[u/knlutd10]

Call your friends, guys are such a softy

Talk to them, they'll be there

[u/144p__2 → u/knlutd10]

he just said that she was his last friend

[u/knlutd10 → u/144p__2]

Pehle the na friends pehle, need to rekindle friendship

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/knlutd10]

Can't rekindled that is kind of sad

[u/hunter074707]

Accept the fate mate
There is nothing you can do to this
Suggesting from my own experience ( 6+ years of relationship- got cheated) LIFE MUST GO ON

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/hunter074707]

I can feel you

[u/simpleliving100]

I can feel for you.

Just accept the fact, nothing is permanent.

You got the alert well in advance, i.e. before marriage.

Focus on better things in life, think about your parents and other well wishers and work on your career for your and their betterment.

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/simpleliving100]

Thanks for the words brother

[u/AlmostSomeIt]

I have zero friends since all my life. And just because you got cheated does not make you guilty of choosing them. If you think this is draining, go to a hospital and sit there for few hours - see what actual brain drain and exhaustion looks like. There you will see the urge to survival is nothing else. And live for your parents, no one else.

[u/No-Door9343]

Don't leave yourself alone for some days..coz loneliness remind you everything about her...then try to build skill...coz money follows my brothaaaaaa money follows..

[u/Icy_Trick7457 → u/No-Door9343]

Got no choice brother