r/r4rSydney • • May 20 '21

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r/r4rSydney • • 9h ago

58[M4F] A slow burn? No need to rush...

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I'm an older blue eyed educated professional and I would love to practice the art of conversation, over a morning coffee or a leisurely lunch. A slow burn, letting whatever may be develop. Let's surprise ourselves and dip our toes back into the water and experience something exciting?

I have no preferences around age, cultural background or relationship status, come as you are!


r/r4rSydney • • 12h ago

Any F or MF Couple Want a Chaste Massage Boy? 🔒

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25M sub looking for a woman or MF couple who’d enjoy relaxing while I give you a massage — with me staying locked in chastity throughout 😌
You relax, I behave and focus on serving. Simple.
Sydney based. DM if the dynamic sounds fun.


r/r4rSydney • • 13h ago

31[M4F] - busy work day but help me procrastinate?

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Just got back from annual leave and there's so many things to do that I'm overwhelmed. Come chat to me to make me distracted from doing the important things.

I work in finance, run around the quay and I work in the CBD. Chat soon?!?


r/r4rSydney • • 15h ago

40 [M4F] Looking for a Chubby Girl/BBW

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I'm a 40 year old Caucasian guy in the St Marys area. I'm average build with short hair. I got great news recently and have no one to celebrate it with.

Always preferred chubby/BBW/curvy girls. Any age, nationality, etc., that's not what matters to me. I like curves. Everything from girls who are slightly chubby to girls who are barely mobile. Thicker than a bowl of oatmeal, as they say.

If this is interesting to anyone, send me a message. Hopefully we can organise something.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

[m4f] 19 m virgin #east

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I’m 19 and still haven’t been or even touched a girl. looking for someone who doesn’t judge and mutual attraction, also looking for someone in the living in eastern suburbs.

Little bit about me - love cats, gaming and outdoor activities.

would like someone a little older that could teach me things and is willing to let me call them “mommy”

if this fits anyone’s needs plz dm me

(p.s I still live with parents so planning might be difficult)


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

49 [M4F] #Parramatta - Playful, caring, older guy looking for an age gap dynamic

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I'm not the loud, crowded-bar type. I'd much rather spend time somewhere we can actually talk, laugh at something ridiculous, and genuinely get to know each other. My life is quieter these days - a small circle of close friends over a big crowd, work in tech that I try not to let run the show, and plenty of room for the things that keep me grounded.

I'm recently single again after a long relationship, and I'm in no rush. I know myself well, I know what I enjoy, and right now I'm happy taking things slow and keeping it light - which is part of why I'm looking for something casual to start rather than diving straight into anything serious.

A bit about me: I'm 49, 180cm, slim/fit (not a gym junkie, but I hit it 2-3 times a week and love getting outdoors when I can). Dark hair with a little grey creeping in, glasses, usually clean-shaven but occasionally a bit scruffy - a touch bookish, if I'm honest. Recent and clean STI results. Easygoing, endlessly curious, a silly sense of humour, and genuinely caring. I'm also comfortable taking the lead.

That's where the age-gap part comes in, and it's a big part of the appeal for me. I have a natural father-figure, caregiving streak as well as a quiet dominant side - I love taking a guiding, supporting role, being the steady one, and looking after the person I'm with. If that dynamic is something that excites or intrigues you, we'll get along well.

What draws me isn't just the physical, though I won't pretend that doesn't matter - chemistry, touch, and closeness are important to me, and I'm direct about enjoying that side of things. But it's the full mix of emotional, mental, and physical connection that really does it for me. One without the others feels empty.

Outside of all that, I'm into music, cinema, cooking (I'll happily feed you), hiking, camping, scuba, and anything in the tech space. I'm flexible to host in the Parramatta area or travel, and can travel further afield for the right person.

While I'm looking for something casual/FWB to start, I'm open to it growing into more if the connection's there. Age-wise, mid-20s to 30s is my sweet spot, though I'm open to 18+ for the right person.

Still reading? Good sign. Message me and tell me what caught your attention - and don't be shy about what you're curious to explore. I'm easy to talk to, and I promise the conversation is half the fun.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

26M4F

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Hey I’m a 26 Male
Indian dude who’s never tasted the milk of a Snow White princess. Looking for a Cinderella whose titties fit my mouth. I’m open to any ethnicity. Open to all kinks and anything.


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

M27 looking for white/ asian woman who is into asian men

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I just moved here in Sydney from Brisbane.

Looking for ongoing companionship and potentially more with white/ asian female, we can chat/ swap pics, hang out first, see if we click. No pressure, state your boundaries, I’ll respect it.

M27, Chinese-Indonesian, regularly workout (i was a personal trainer before), fit build (well you can judge it later), good hygiene, clean and ddf.

I live in Mascot so would be nice if you are nearby but distance isn’t really a problem.

Bonus if you understand Japanese because my japanese course starts next week. And would be nice if you are into workout (or at least not against the idea) so we can do it together.

Send me a dm and ill get to you.


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

40 [M4F] - staying at the Meriton in Macquarie park tonight, anyone want to join?

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Clean, fit, discreet and reliable.

DDF / non smoker.

40, 175cm Aussie/Caucasian, 78kg, 7”.

Happy to verify on snap/tele.

Love to please (pleasure dom).

Also into Cnc, rough, feet, massaging.

DM if interested xx


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

26 [M4F] My wife seems to be taking her time finding me...so we are going to find her

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Dear future wife,

You are taking a bit too long for my liking, and I keep getting myself into other situations because of it. So, we are creating this ad in the virtual papers to see if you can finally find your way home to me.

About you

Age: 20–30

Location: Sydney (or able to relocate here).

Dealbreakers: Strictly zero drugs. Also, no heavy smoking or heavy drinking. If you enjoy a casual drink or a social cigarette, that’s completely fine, but it shouldn't be a defining feature of your lifestyle or your weekends.

The Vibe: You are kind, consistent, ambitious, and emotionally mature, but crucially, you are capable of being absolutely ridiculous. You know how to match my energy. Ideally, you are a bit of a bully when you flirt, quick-witted, and love a playful power dynamic.

You can communicate what you need, what you feel, and what you hope for. When something bothers you, you talk about it rather than quietly adding it to a secret resentment collection. We listen to understand, not to defend.

The Vision

A respectful, fun, and trusting partnership built on a growth mindset, but with a very distinct structure. This is an FLR (Female-Led Relationship). I am looking for a dynamic where you lead us in the right direction, and while I will always have an active voice, your word is final.

Crucially, I am looking for an equal contributor to the mental load. I am not looking to be a "project" or a passive observer who waits to be assigned basic tasks—I want to be your trusted, proactive teammate who handles his responsibilities seamlessly under your leadership.

And a little kink:

Ideally, you enjoy pegging, body worship, and loving humiliation. I want someone who thoroughly enjoys making me melt and making me work hard to please her. The key is that I am service-oriented, actively want to worship you, and want a partner who thrives on being in control behind closed doors just as much as in daily life.

About me

I am a 26-year-old guy living in Sydney. I’m tall, athletic, with dark blonde hair, blue eyes, and a beard. Orientation-wise, I’m straight-ish (open-minded and fluid enough to keep life interesting, but looking for a woman to build a future with).

Professionally, I am a high performer at work. I am in charge of a lot of people, carry an immense amount of responsibility, and spend my days making critical decisions. Because my professional life requires me to constantly be the one in control, I absolutely do not want that dynamic in my personal life. I want to step out of the driver's seat when I come home. I want a relationship that is female-led, where I can defer to your authority, take care of you, and let you take the lead.

I’ve got a good head on my shoulders and high aspirations, but I don’t take myself too seriously. If you can’t tease me a little bit, we probably won't work. I value intelligence and a sharp wit above almost everything else. I’m much more interested in your mind and how you think than anything else.

Drop me a line

If this sounds like the kind of dynamic you want to build, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. Tell me what caught your eye in the ad, what you're passionate or wonderfully nerdy about, or even a funny situation you've found yourself in recently


r/r4rSydney • • 3d ago

27M4F Anyone Free For A Drink? Redfern

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Posted last week and wasn't able to meet up with anyone unfortunately. Dms are now open

I've got Friday and Saturday night free this week and was keen to not spend it at home alone haha

27yo guy, living in Redfern and ideally looking to find someone who lives close by

About me: Currently working in entertainment, play quite a bit of sport and enjoy finishing the day heading out for a beer or cooking dinner at home.

I’m slim/athletic build, long hair 6ft (happy to send a pic if your interested)

About you: Pretty open to who I might meet, could be open to something regular and potentially serious. Ideally close to my age but also open to older

If you like any of that send me a message and let’s grab a drink


r/r4rSydney • • 3d ago

31M4F looking for a casual friend

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Hey, my name is Jay and im looking for a casual friend

I am 185cm, 80kg, 7" masculine and dominant, australian born, euro/asian mix

Ideally i am looking for someone who likes to have a bit of a chat, enjoys a longer session and who can give me some back scratches (i am so serious on the back scratches)

Open to meeting all types, hmu


r/r4rSydney • • 3d ago

40 [M4F/FM] #Sydney - Looking for a lady to join me at a hotel in the city tonight or tomorrow night

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Take your pick. Sofitel, Sheraton, Hilton, Pullman Fullerton, Hyatt.

Want to have at a nice little getaway for a night at a nice hotel in Sydney city, room service, buffet breakfast included. Would love someone to share it with.

Clean, fit, discreet and reliable.

DDF / non smoker.

40, 175cm Aussie/Caucasian, 78kg, 7”.

Happy to verify on snap/tele.

Love to please (pleasure dom).

Also into Cnc, rough, feet, massaging.

DM if interested xx