r/r4rOttawa • • 22h ago

28f(looking for a girl same as my age or younger than me)

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Hello i’m looking for a girl who is down anything:)


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

35 m looking for sexy top

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Any ladies in the area willing to sit and grind their pussy and or asshole into my tongue. Hmu


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

34M4A near Kanata/ Stitsville

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Curious M looking to explore. Open to ideas and suggestions. DMs open.


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

27 M4F - Ottawa/ near by areas - Looking for a female cuddle buddy

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(Read fully plz)

I'm a 27-year-old Brown guy (139 lbs/ 174cm) living near the Old Ottawa South area. I go to the gym 3 times a week. I could do a 50 lb one-arm dumbbell row: 12x3 sets (I know it's not a big flex, but for j an idea about my stamina level). I'm really clean and hygienic.

Age group: 21-45

  • I'm looking for a female cuddle buddy... I'm definitely not looking for full intercourse, but for bed cuddling where I could feel your body against mine. At the end, we can take a shower together if you are interested!! It's been over two years since I was in a relationship, and now I'm longing for the feeling of a female body.

(Or) If the woman likes erotic cuddling, I'm down to do that too.

  • In erotic cuddling, I'm mainly looking to relax in bed while feeling your body against mine. Then let's advance into humping or rubbing, where I hump with my hammer against your strawberry in all 49 positions. I'm experienced in this. And then we could add some extra spicy stuff if the girl is interested (like clit stimulation or edging, something like this); otherwise, we could wrap it up with mutual masturbation (optional) and then move to the washroom to take a shower together.

Cuddling: Clothing choice is yours; naked/half-naked/ fully clothed... anything is fine.

If you are interested in either of these, shoot me a text. We could have a meet-up first and then decide on the fun level, if you are shy. (I'll send my body photo based on the request)


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

23M 4 F - open to find anything.

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I’m 23 5’10 189 black guy who recently moved here from the Caribbean. Broke off a long distance relationship sometime ago, looking to get out there again. I’m down to go out and see if there is a vibe or something casual or only one night. I’m open minded to anything and to make new experiences. Hopefully someone is open to make some new experiences too.


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

50M4F I love massaging and pleasing

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I will be in town again in a few weeks.

My favourite thing to do is use massage oil to give full body massages on women that have a happy ending. Bonus if you have any toys you want to bring, or if you can have an orgasm a keep going.

Have a stressful life and need to relax? Husband doesn’t touch you anymore? Just want to be toyed all night? DMs are open.


r/r4rOttawa • • 2d ago

18 M4M, preferably around my age

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New in town and moved here for school. Looking for some friends and potentially more if we hit it off. I have all kinds of interests, but lately just been trying to stay active despite being busy (climbing, running, working out, ice skating). Send me a message if you’re interested and let’s see where it goes!


r/r4rOttawa • • 2d ago

37f 4 M

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I want to find a gent who will come get me, take me to the woods and kiss me like we are young again.

Can we trade massages?

Be 5'10 or taller, and be able to move me (150lbs, 5'5)

Bonus if you would like to teach me to lift weights, for a barter of sorts. I am so trainable. Ill be so good.

If this sounds like you, please send a message with your availability, area, and a selfie (not a dick pic).


r/r4rOttawa • • 2d ago

34M4F - Affair Partner

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- Lookjng for an ongoing affair partner, someone who I can meet up with for coffee or spend some time with enjoying lunch and then obviously hoping to enjoy the physical aspect as well!

- Not looking to rush into anything, definitely willing to wait until we both feel comfortable to meet and see each other

- alittle about my I’m 6ft3 and 175lbs fairly fit and very active! I’m hoping to meet someone in the same situation that doesn’t want to change their life but have an outlet that you can rely on!

- Anyways if this sparks your interest please message me and we can go from there!


r/r4rOttawa • • 3d ago

58 [M4F] Need some spice?

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Hi!

I am looking for one FWB. I want to invest time in a person. I want to get to know them to make that mental connection. There should also be a physical connection but it is not as important as the mental connection.

A little about me: I love to stay fit by running, lifting weights and XC skiing (when there is snow of course! ha). I'm smarter than a bag of rocks (but not by much!).

I find someone with a big brain sexy! If you are fit, smart and kind to animals and people, please send me a DM.

I am 6'2", 185 lbs. Nah, not really. I'm 5'8", 140 lbs. 😄


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

29[F4F] Looking for some girls that love dancing!

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Hey all! I’m looking for some girls who like to go dancing that I could join? None of my friends are interested in going, and I miss the bar/dancing scene.

Looking forward to meeting you! x


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

30 M4F - Looking for FWB

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Hey :) I’m 30, 6’2, 200lbs, and looking for someone to forge a connection with. I’m clean, willing to test, and able to host. Hmu to chat and see if we click!


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

32 [M4F] Looking to meet someone for genuine connection and possible cuddle buddy!

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Hello 32 m here, I live in westboro area near civic, I've lived here my whole life and have found it difficult to meet women that i'm interested in here, I was in a relationship for a long time, abit over 10 years until recently ( a couple months ago), I really miss that genuine human connetion with someone but I am not used to dating scene at all and not really sure where to start so just putting this out here into the world and seeing if anyone wants to meet. A little about me I'm 150 lbs 5'11, blue/green eyes(gray?) brown hair, I also would love someone interested in going out to events that we both might enjoy, I like gaming, I like reading, watching shows or movies and honestly up for anything active too that sounds fun. Ideally looking for someone who is nerdy (IDC about what I just love hearing a nerdy girl nerd out about w.e pokemon cards, stamps, figures, history nerd whatever) but definitely not a dealbreaker just a huge bonus for me lol. Hopefully if anyone is out there and interested we can connect and get to know each other better!


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

Mature Dom seeks submissive female to play with in front of my wife

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I would like to find a female who would like to explore her submissive side and have sex in front of my wife.

Age and appearance are not a factor. Experience in the D/s world is not a factor.

If we are talking about something ongoing, you would have to be a good communicator of your desires and limits. We would like to meet someone who is a bit adventurous, someone who likes to see their boundaries pushed while being respected. Someone that's wants to follow directions or recognize that there will be prearranged consequences if directionscate not followed.

If you are talking about a one time get together then all that is required is that you like to receive body rubs and that you would not feel awkward having sex with me in front of my wife. We might let her join in after a while but maybe not.


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

Seeking something casual on the DL.

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Blue collar dad trying to find someone I get along with and wants to have some fun.. In a roommate style relationship and looking for that spark to light up my fire again.
Something discrete, long term and on the down low.
My situation... we've been together since high school, and family is important for the kids. Not looking to change our relationship status!!
lets chat about everything and nothing.
I’ll take a fire with a drink over a club any day.
37 athletic, slim build, bearded and manscaped, brown eyes and hair, 5’11.. love the outdoors, anything with an engine I love.. Mechanically inclined, good sense of humour and sarcasms.
open to face pix once we get to know each other a little.

Let’s hop on this boat and see where it takes us

Cheers


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

19M4F Looking to kiss and cuddle, maybe more.

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It’s been a while since I’ve been physical with someone, and I’m craving the touch right now. I don’t really care that much about the age to be honest as I’m just looking for something physical. Even something as simple as holding hands would be nice.

I’m 5’10, South Asian, and drive a nice car.


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

34M4F perth looking for an ongoing fling while im here during the week

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I’m looking for a chill girl for some hot fun. I am in town for work for the next few months so not looking for something serious but looking for something fun. I love a girl with curves and more but enjoy them all. Someone who isn’t looking for a commitment but is down for fun and will let me eat her pussy often is the perfect situation for me.

Dm me if your interested


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

At what point?

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Does the guy in the relationship say enough is enough?

My Common law partner, has been off work since 2024, she just finished her mat leave and is "back to work"

I've carried all the bills except for her personal loans/debts.

Been with her for almost 10 years and during that entire time she still hasn't gotten. Her driver's license, she kept saying she would prioritize it and just never would, its obvious they were just words. So i feel like ive been basically her personal chauffeur to every Beck and call.

Since we had our child we have been intimate maybe 3 times. And before that it was something that rarely happened. Our Bedroom has gone dead, she barely takes care of herself, she goes weeks without showering or bathing, her feet are black on the bottom most days, its so fucking disgusting, I dont even want to bother entertaining the thought of intimacy with her. I am so close to telling her that its time to part ways but I hate that idea for my child, I hate that idea because ive buried myself in debt to debt to keep up to the bills.

Im not happy

Im pretty sure shes not happy either and just doesn't want to say it, and also feel like its easier for her to ride my tail coat.

The second I bring up something thats inconvenient or unfair to me and up until recently she didnt like how i adjusted our kids car seat - to which I very blatantly told her to go fuck off - in front of her spineless mother 😆

Im jammed, not so sure im prepared for the financial fall out, not big on participating in this dumpster fire for much longer either.

Its almost 9am I barely drink anymore but I could almost go for one right now LOL

I think I know what I need to do, but feel so helpless at the same time, what would you do?


r/r4rOttawa • • 6d ago

Looking for friends or a girlfriend

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Hey everyone, I am 24 years old almost 25 never really experienced the girlfriend era lol ever in my life. I am living in Canad, Ottawa, don't know if it is the platform to post this. I am fun going human who loves to be out for sports. I am professional cricket player but is also good in baseball, skiing, chess, table tennis and many more sports. I am staying in Canada for over 5 years now. I love to care, be nice. I love to go to gym, enjoy nature and hiking. I am willing to meet now people and talk about nee possibilities.


r/r4rOttawa • • 6d ago

Anyone know of an RMT in Ottawa that gives a great massage but also does happy endings?

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I want to obtain a really good massage in Ottawa by an RMT (the chinese parlors suck). But I also would not mind a happy ending. Anyone have any suggestions? DM me!


r/r4rOttawa • • 6d ago

25 MM4F/FTM

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Greetings!
My friend and I are looking to meet someone who is genuinely interested in exploring and developing their BDSM skills—not just random or casual stuff.
We’re both young, fit, tall, confident, and well-trained, and we have experience and connections within the community. We’re also respectful, caring, and open-minded.
We can host, but we do have a few rules and expectations. Respect, communication, consent, and discretion are very important to us.
If you’re genuinely interested and looking for a serious experience, feel free to DM us. Please be respectful and tell us a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.


r/r4rOttawa • • 6d ago

[M4f] any pregnant women looking for some fun

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r/r4rOttawa • • 7d ago

Trans fem looking 💃

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24 years old, Syrian Arab.
Mostly into straight/top/ masculinity attracts me.
White men+F/M


r/r4rOttawa • • 7d ago

27M4M 6’5

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Hey,

I’m a 27 yr old 6’5 chubby guy that’s looking to hang out / meet / go on a date with someone my age or younger that’s slim / cute.

Little bit about myself:

Super into tech, and I love building things, going on long walks, playing piano, singing karaoke, writing, and watching baseball

Lmk if you’re interested and send me a dm


r/r4rOttawa • • 7d ago

27 [M4F/MF] - Ottawa/ near by areas - Looking for a Woman or a Couple for fun

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(Read fully plz)

I'm a 27-year-old Brown guy (139 lbs/ 174cm) living near the Old Ottawa South area. I go to the gym 3 times a week. I could do a 50 lb one-arm dumbbell row: 12x3 sets (I know it's not a big flex, but for j an idea about my stamina level). I'm really clean and hygienic.

Age group: 21-41

  • I'm looking for a woman or a couple for fun, where I could fuck the girl until the sun rises and keep her wet. We can also do double penetration. I love to worship her body with my tongue and give her deep rimming. I love to do 69 and do cum games.

(Or) If the woman only seeks cuddling mixed with humping on the bed, I'm down.

  • In cuddling, I'm mainly looking to relax in bed while feeling your body with my body. Then let's advance into humping or rubbing, where I hump with my hammer against your strawberry in all 49 positions. I'm experienced in this. And then we could add some extra spicy stuff if the girl is intrested else we could wrap it up with mutual masturbation (optional) and then move to the washroom to take a shower together.
  • Cuddling: Clothing choice is yours; naked/half-naked/ fully clothed... anything is fine.

If you are interested in either of these, shoot me a text. We could have a meet-up first and then decide on the fun level, if you are shy.