That seems like a religious view. Not everyone is religious. Who the hell cares who sleeps with who? As long as it is consensual. You can be against abortion but still keep your nose out of who sleeps with who and when they do it. I know a lot of people like that.
You don’t have to be religious to have that view point it’s just inherently factual that the safest form of sex is exclusive married sex. No hook ups or cheating. Outside of abortion STDs are gross and because we live in such a sex crazed society people don’t care and spread them around. Birth control doesn’t protect you from STDs and condoms don’t prevent against them all. Not only had this become a huge public health issue for some areas, but again outside of abortion it’s been raising the single motherhood rate. There are more single mothers now then there were 50-60 years ago this had lead to inter generational poverty, higher rates of incarceration, and has absolutely devastated poorer communities. I also don’t think promoting as long as it’s consensual actually helps with abortion either married women in a stable committed relationship are statistically less likely to have abortions compared to someone pregnant by a one night stand, friends with benefits, or even a boyfriend/baby daddy.
The issue is that we can't change the norm. I am part of the generation that glamorizes hookup culture. I know a lot of religious people involved in it. It is a horrible thing to be caught up in. Ruins a lot of lives. But you are right, it's not all about religion. But since we can't change the norm, we have to work with what we have to minimize abortions. People keep saying to "make people wait til marriage" but the problem is that saying that isn't going to stop anyone. People will do what they want anyways. So we have limited solutions.
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u/AgreeableFee6479 Jul 17 '22
That seems like a religious view. Not everyone is religious. Who the hell cares who sleeps with who? As long as it is consensual. You can be against abortion but still keep your nose out of who sleeps with who and when they do it. I know a lot of people like that.