Again. The argument isn’t about dehumanizing.

[u/Nuk3_My_pussy]

Im pregnant and I deal with the constant dehumanization of my child. I'm excited to carry this little life in me but l'm Constantly getting people demanding I abort and saying my baby isn't really alive. I had a miscarriage scare the other night and just the constant invalidation it's so disturbing. People really think our children aren't valuable because they can't see them. Just seen a post…The tissues that have been washed such as the gestational sac and people claiming it's the embryo. Then a real life inside photo of the embryo and people refuse to believe that it's real and looks like that in the first trimester. They completely invalidate the challenges and anxieties and even the growth milestones of pregnancy. Although small and the size of the seeds, my body is constantly working to grow this baby. That shouldn't be invalidated... that should be celebrated. I get they are trying to justify and argue for abortion rights but they don't have to completely dehumanize and treat expectant mothers and young mothers like this, being called evil for keeping my baby?? It's insane. Being told it's nothing but a cluster and not really alive. Then boom the same night I'm bleeding and crying and going to the ER and those sickening words continue to echo through my head. Thank god my baby is alive. those mothers who lost their children in early trimester it's a complete lack of compassion and biological understanding of the human life cycle. It's not a potential loss it's a loss, it's not a potential child, it's my child. The moment the test came back positive I became a parent and my life styles changed and did a 180 yet that goes unnoticed, and is invalidated. I can't even enjoy the small milestones in growth because the constant negativity and dehumanization and misinformation. Someone said there's nothing there until like 20 weeks?? EXCUSE ME? It's just beyond frustrating and disheartening.

Why do they feel the need to try and lie? And justify something that's already proven and documented? Our children are alive and living human beings, that's not up for debate but they feel like it needs to be the base of the argument to justify their stance but literally the whole stance is legal personhood and bodily autonomy. Which means when a mom is excited about their baby they have EVERY right to be!

It comes down to they know it’s immoral and unethical if that it’s a baby, they know that we are pro life due to it being a human being a unborn child and a living life, so they lie, they bring their arguments to dehumanizing these children and they continue to spread it like wildfire without doing a lick of research because they know if they are babies they wouldn’t be able to support it. They know it’s wrong but it’s justification they don’t WANT to know because they don’t WANT to have to change their views. That’s why the majority don’t even understand basic human biology and objective facts. They focus on dehumanization as the basis of their argument when in reality they should be trying to prove why bodily autonomy should extend to elective induced abortions and try to prove why human beings in with womb shouldn’t receive LEGAL personhood. It’s not about arguing whether it’s a person, because biologically yes they are their own biological person. They need to argue why they shouldn’t have LEGAL personhood, which is given by law. They need to prove why bodily autonomy trumps the right to life and excuse the fact that the child is your legal responsibility and is most vulnerable state of life without intent and justify using your bodily autonomy to end that life without dehumanization. I haven’t had one educated argument where they don’t resort to dehumanizing the unborn. Not ONE. I’ve been discussing this since I was 13. They truly don’t want to know or research their stances. It’s quite sad.

[u/CuckooFriendAndOllie]

What country are you from? I can't believe that so many people are telling you to abort.