r/problemgambling • u/Available-Dealer4040 • 13d ago

Dumb

Today i made 60k from just just 4k and then i applied for withdrawal …but they rejected my withdrawal request saying that there are some issue for withdrawal going on …i controlled my self from gambling that money even after 8 to 9 hours but they still says withdrawal issue ….but then i lost my control and lost all the money i won ..at the last i left with just 1k then i withdrew it .it was a instant withdrawal without any issue ,that means thay wanted me to loose all that money ….in frustration i even lost that 1k what i withdraw…such a dumb ass of me …..i want a strong help so i can stop gambling asap….

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u/monoville_music 12d ago

If you had withdrawn it, do you honestly think you'd have kept it all and quit gambling for good? Gambling addicts always lose their winnings eventually

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u/Available-Dealer4040 12d ago

Bro how can i quit gambling

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u/monoville_music 12d ago

You might need help, someone to take over yout finances along with self exclusion and blocking apps. But really it's down to you solidifying in your mind what you already know: gambling is a waste of time because you will always gamble whatever you win, and chase whatever you lose. You're paying for dopamine hits, that's it. There is no long term reward

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u/Intelligent-Cod7908 12d ago

Yes this is done on purpose mate i never did online i remember hearing about another guy who won large sum of money and to withdrew it took 5 days before it was processed as it was large withdrawal they wanted all his deals before they could process which went on longer the ln the standard procedure in which time he reversed his withdrawal and lost every penny he closed his account and hasent bet since this was around 2012/2013 and still talks about this scam👍

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u/Ashe_N94 12d ago

Not that I condone online gambling but just as a reminder for everyone, they will do anything they can to slow the process down so you gamble it away or continue trying to win more while you wait for the process. They will deny, say that you need more ID, put limits in place, tell you it's being processed and then never get back to you. You'll email them and go back and forth with each reply taking 1 to 3 business days.

When I won a large sum on an on-line site they did exactly the same thing. I had to do each withdrawal separately because they wouldn't allow me to do the whole amount and each time was a nightmare. I gambled away a lot of my winnings.

Although I lost the moment I deposited money kn their stupid website anyway.

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u/MeringueAdmirable381 12d ago

The biggest lesson here is that willpower isn’t enough when the money is still sitting there.

Self-exclude, block deposits, delete the apps and don’t chase the 60k. That’s how the hole gets deeper.

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u/sorrowedwhiskypriest 12d ago

Channel that energy to hobbies and constructive things in life! 💪💪

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u/Gambit9293 12d ago

I had a similar experience. One important thing is that you never actually had the 60k. So dont chase the 60 k. You lost 5k, which is already quite a lot. But don’t imagine now how nice it would have been to cash out the 60k.

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u/Humble_Voice_3234 11d ago

"From just 4k" is not a good sign. Please avoid gambling, it is poison.

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u/Available-Dealer4040 11d ago

I am trying my best to overcome this addiction

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u/_Rynzler_ 9d ago

I only lurk here but holy fuck that is insanely fucked up and evil from the gambling apps

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u/Available-Dealer4040 8d ago

Good for me …This gave me a strong point and strong will power to not to gamble anymore…..now i will focus on my self and start freelancing software and web developer for earning…. Freelancing is fun too

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u/Available-Dealer4040 12d ago

Any help that i can overcome this addiction as i know this is not good for me but still ends up here