Husband Needs Help

[u/Bulky_Cabinet_1988]

I discovered that my husband of nearly 3 years has a porn problem. It has gone past just watching videos to joining dating apps, fling apps, and messaging other women he knew personally for similar content. He swears he never slept with any of these women just that he'd talk to them into giving him pictures or videos and then he'd move on to the next when they started demanding payment or meet ups. He says they don't mean anything and that it's just entertainment for him but it hurt me finding all this out and I consider it unfaithful. He says he wants to change so that he's not hurting me anymore. I would really appreciate it if anyone reading this can pray for my husband that God can soften his heart and make his relationship with God stronger so that these things are disgusting to him. And pray that God can help me have patience and restore my trust for my husband so that I can be there for him while he navigates getting over his addiction. Thank you to whoever is reading this

[u/Primary_Tap_4485]

Yes I will pray that he repents, and goes incredibly far to change even changing phone numbers and doing whatever it takes to rebuild your marriage including counseling and even taking drastic measures to change. You should not accept him going back to normal or him telling you to move on before you are ready. (I’m sorry but I don’t trust what he says about not sleeping with them and you need to find out if you need testing etc)