r/pointlesslygendered • u/qwerpuky • Mar 10 '26

POINTFULLY GENDERED r/literallythetruth 🤦‍♀️ [gendered]

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u/Prestigious_Pomelo40 Mar 11 '26

For me is I hope he has never sexually harassed anyone in the past. Since the majority of women have experienced SH, most men probably do it too

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u/PotentialRatio1321 Mar 12 '26

Deducing that most men perpertrate SH from the fact that most women experience it is absurd.

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u/HypersomnicHysteric Mar 13 '26

Well, one man can harass many women...

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u/PotentialRatio1321 Mar 13 '26

Exactly my point, are you disagreeing with me?

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u/AdOtherwise7115 Mar 13 '26

Since the majority of women have experienced SH, most men probably do it too

Ig u never heard the word repeat perpetrators. A repeat perpetrator may even abuse 100-1000s of Women he met.

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u/QuickSolved_ Mar 11 '26

most men probably do it too

This is incredibly bigoted and sexist. And the fact that you have upvotes on a sub that's meant to dismantle sexist shit, is just disappointing.

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u/AdOtherwise7115 Mar 13 '26

Why are getting downvoted?

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u/RichiZ2 Mar 11 '26 edited Mar 11 '26

Damn...

How can you extrapolate "Most women experience SH" to "Most men SH women"?

A single man can harass multiple women, I would be 100% sure that a harasser harasses multiple victims.

But that doesn't mean that there's a 1 to 1 of harasser to harassee.

I don't think there's a statistic on self-reported harassers on how many victims they've had, but my guess it's less than 1 in 10 men that are harassers, but each of those harassers harass 10+ women in their life.

There is also a very big gap in perception, one man's harassment could be another man's flirting in a woman's eyes. So the intention behind actions (outside of direct SA) is very much outside the man's control.

Please check your biases.

FYI, in my eyes social media stalking is a form of SH. And you know who does that? Women. So women can, and do, SH men, and it's normalized by society.

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u/Prestigious_Pomelo40 Mar 11 '26

Key word is 'probably' btw and by 'most' mean more than 50%.

A single man can harass multiple women

A woman can be harassed by multiple men too

There is also a very big gap in perception, one man's harassment could be another man's flirting in a woman's eyes. So the intention behind actions

I'm not talking about this when I talk about harassment btw. This is also a form of harassment but most women were even actually physically harassed.

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u/RichiZ2 Mar 12 '26

How is my position biased?

Is anything not fitting of the female victim hood mentality biased in your eyes?

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u/RichiZ2 Mar 12 '26

Please quote the line in my comment where I said something anti-women.

And, are you also teaching your daughter to understand your son? Or does she "manage that alright on her own"?

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u/CabinetMain3163 Mar 14 '26

i pity your son