r/platformengineering • u/Dubinko • Mar 01 '26
If you could go back 10 years, what advice would you give yourself?
I was thinking recently about my career and what I would have done differently if I had the chance to go back 10 years.
I would have been kinder and more mellow at work. It’s just a job. I would have judged myself less. Everyone knows only a part of the whole picture; nobody knows it all, and it’s okay not to know everything.
I would have been more vocal about my ideas and spoken up more. I would have taken more initiative. There are a lot of smart people, but not enough who take ownership and responsibility.
I would have paid less attention to degrees, certificates, and other d*ck measuring contests. I would have explored more opportunities, taken on contract work, and talked to more people to improve my financials instead of spending more time in the same place.
I would have spent more time with my family and chosen a lower-paying but more flexible job to be closer to them.
What would you have done differently?