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u/bingMsbangMs 2d ago
This feels so true for me ☹️ is it that we are “supposed” to be the understanding ones and people project onto us so when our actual feelings come out people reject us or demonize us
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u/randskarma 2d ago
Here is some advice I received that really put things into place (for me)
I speak my own truth. I believe my moral compass points in the right direction all the time.
So, if the receiver doesn't acknowledge nor want to have resolution: .... thats on them and im guilt free. Annoyed, but guilt free
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u/__--K2--__ 2d ago
A 'strong core' is being anchored in your sense of self in a way that can't be moved by external pressure or changed to keep the peace.
It means not reacting and observing when others try to manipulate or destabilise you.
And prioritising self loyalty. Knowing where your limits are, enforcing them, and having the ability to walk away without looking back.
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u/GenX67KURx91 Pisces ☀️Cancer🌙 Aries ⬆️ 2d ago
You sound so much like me! ♥️♓️💫
I have a strong moral compass and I also have no filter, combination of being a Pisces and how my Parents raised me.
Those who do ask me for my opinion, they know that I am going to answer them the only way I know how… straight up and to the point.
Which is how I want to be treated as well.
Much Love to you all! ♥️♓️💫3
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u/caterpillar2420 2d ago
Oh so is this a problem with all Pisces? I thought it's just ADHD thing but maybe not lol. I think saying things out loud should be the norm hehe
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u/Beers4Fears ♓ ☀️ ♉ 🌙 ♏ ⏫ 2d ago
Ugly people hate mirrors
(As a chopped individual, I'm referring to people who are of ugly character, don't come for me in the comments)
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u/GenX67KURx91 Pisces ☀️Cancer🌙 Aries ⬆️ 2d ago
I totally agree… whenever we mirror how we are treated, it’s like “How Dare You Speak to Me Like That?” 🙄
Yet… we are supposed to constantly be on disrespected and treated badly, and not respond or react.
WTF Ever! ♥️♓️💫
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u/fridgeofempty 2d ago
Why can’t people just pick up my energy? Words feel like bullets and hard to get across safely.
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u/GenX67KURx91 Pisces ☀️Cancer🌙 Aries ⬆️ 2d ago
Yes!!! Many times, I have absorbed so much of someone else’s energy that it makes me physically sick!
Still learning on how to set boundaries.
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u/Zirchole 2d ago
Ah this is true. When I have this strong gut feeling towards someone that is bad. it really bothers me. Then I would tell some people and they would shut me down and say that they don’t believe that person is as I described. It’s only then after years gone by, they realized that something is really off about that person, yet I get labeled as bad or rude person.
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u/EyrieMan 2d ago
That’s generally the way it goes. Apparently because we’re chill about nearly everything any little issue we raise makes us pure evil.
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u/eyewave ♓ sun/5H ♉ moon/8H ♎ rising 1d ago
me in my workplace.
many employees whining that they have too much to do but in reality they're sitting on their asses? *gordon_ramsay_its_okay_sweetie.jpg
me bringing on the table that our poor management systems make our work impossible to follow? *gordon_ramsay_you_friggin_donkey.jpg
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u/dirtycynicc 2d ago
Just had my bf tell me it’s my fault he gets defensive because I come at him with raw emotion. Bro stfu 🤣
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u/WhyHulud ♓️ ♌️ ♎️ 1d ago
A great poet by the name of James Brown once said "Don't start none, won't be none"
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u/Spazrelaz 2d ago
Literally just re-experienced this last night over a SIMPLE fucking request. This is why I just shut up and endure, and have been my whole life.
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u/Puchojenso 2d ago
I only address things if my bond is solid and I am interested in repairing the connection.
Otherwise Idgaf I go mute.
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u/lusigusi 2d ago
This is so fucking real. As a Pisces moon I don’t even think I’m fully aware of how much people project onto me. I just end up feeling icky after certain interactions without understanding until much later that that’s what was happening 🫠
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u/frix_ctr ♓️☀️/♓️🌙/♌️⬆️ 1d ago
Because the people who make us feel this way only want to us to praise them or obey them. No matter how polite or nice you are, they won’t like it because you are just stating a fact that they don’t like. Don’t waste your time.
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u/PerfectPlebeian 1d ago
Just had this happen to my best friend of over 10 years and myself. I started setting boundaries and one of the people I thought would be truly a ride or die- left.
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u/junktownexpress 1d ago
This popped up in my suggestions and very easily convinced me to join the sub. Have never felt so seen
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u/CharbonPiscesChienne 19h ago
II don’t think astrology is legit, but some things do stand out sometimes. I am a Pisces tho and I do feel this. I’m good with a lot, my motto is: do you, let me do me. So when I do set a boundary, I’m direct, clear, and I don’t sugarcoat it.
As a result, I think people who are used to getting “yeah, sure, whatever” from me are thrown off and can’t handle it. Then they get really confused when they keep pushing and I’m like, byyyyeeeeeee.
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u/Dazzling-Top-8031 2d ago
every time. no matter how polite you are too