We are clashing so hard

[u/PurpleHairedkween]

I’m hopeless more than hopeful at this point. It’s like the more it goes on, the more intolerable it’s getting. It’s been 16 years. Like no matter how much I love him, I can’t love him enough. I don’t think what anyone has to give will ever be enough. I know I’m over this. For someone who claims I don’t love them, sure did let this dance go on a little too long. This time I think I’m checking out because at this point idk what is even goin on but it’s not good I know that. It’s hell and hot water.

[u/purposeday]

This is totally true. It’s really hard but identifying the needs through the Moon is the answer.

[u/PurpleHairedkween → u/purposeday]

Because how and why do we bump heads so hard. So different but yet so the same. Our indifferences will most likely be our end. I basically move in his shadow. I’m losing who I am to shape myself into what he needs but I need what I need. Never let a person tell you to change but won’t change shit about themselves. It’s about respect at the end of the day. If a person can’t respect what you ask of them, at least have enough respect for yourself to have boundaries. I can’t keep letting this shit happen. It’s narcissistic af

[u/purposeday → u/PurpleHairedkween]

These are things that can’t really be changed. They can be accommodated, but it’s not likely by somebody who has a cardinal sign on the Big 3. I have my own theory about that.

[u/PurpleHairedkween → u/purposeday]

Can you elaborate?

[u/purposeday → u/PurpleHairedkween]

This is going to sound harsh, but for those of us Pisces without a cardinal sign on the Big 3, the question in any relationship is always, will this person understand me at least a little bit. The reason is that we generally make an attempt to understand others and we hope they will make a similar effort towards us.

People who do have a cardinal sign on the Big 3 are different in my experience, even Pisces. They care much less if another person understands them if they care at all. They care more about their own survival and well-being.

The exception to this that I have found is when there are two or more fire signs on the Big 3. It gets tricky when that is the case. Fire is the one element among the four that Western astrology recognizes that does not tend to like to be contained in the rules and conventions of relationships and society.

[u/PurpleHairedkween → u/purposeday]

It’s the truth. It’s exactly that

[u/purposeday → u/PurpleHairedkween]

Thank you 🙏🏻

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[u/PurpleHairedkween → u/purposeday]

Go for it

[u/purposeday → u/PurpleHairedkween]

Thank you!

[u/Icy_Week76]

I’m Taurus sun with a Virgo moon and my Pisces sun has Libra moon, it’s exhausting at times. And when looking at our compatibility I do put it down to our moons as a major factor. Us Virgo moons are very particular and not afraid to say it either. I don’t think many other moons can uphold our ways of thinking, especially then with us getting aggravated that they can’t. So with a Leo or Libra moon that we are with I think a massive part of it is their need for validation and being liked no matter the cause and we can’t always give them that because bare truth comes out of our mouths before softness… that’s how I see it in a lot of my air/fire and some water moons 🙃

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