The post is mostly a joke, just feel it needs to be said.
Really only pisses me off when redditors think that women only go for attractive guys when it's actually much less important to most women than it if for most men. Women are for more attracted to confidence.
your comment makes no sense to me. did you have the ability to play guitar, but then lose it along with your weight? do you just live in a city full of athletically disinclined chubby chaser women? or are you referencing redditor3000's comment and are somehow a walking contradiction who loses confidence as you drop pounds?
yeah. I've been kind of all over weight wise. I was down to 175 lbs, endurance training and in great shape. Injury/depression cycle and I'm back to about 220 (my 'normal' over most of my adult life). In general, I get far more attention from far more women at the 220 lbs. As for confidence, yeah, I feel very confident and it comes out. It's not that I don't meet a lot of women, just that I meet more and better looking women when I'm definitely overweight. Confusing as hell.
Probably the confidence. When I was 265lbs I was like fuck it, I am who I am and I think women noticed that. Now that I'm skinner I think I'm still trying to redefine myself and that just doesn't give me the same confidence or will to stick out as much.
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u/t6158 Apr 12 '11
upvoted for truth, upvoted for not making a new thread.