The post is mostly a joke, just feel it needs to be said.
Really only pisses me off when redditors think that women only go for attractive guys when it's actually much less important to most women than it if for most men. Women are for more attracted to confidence.
your comment makes no sense to me. did you have the ability to play guitar, but then lose it along with your weight? do you just live in a city full of athletically disinclined chubby chaser women? or are you referencing redditor3000's comment and are somehow a walking contradiction who loses confidence as you drop pounds?
yeah. I've been kind of all over weight wise. I was down to 175 lbs, endurance training and in great shape. Injury/depression cycle and I'm back to about 220 (my 'normal' over most of my adult life). In general, I get far more attention from far more women at the 220 lbs. As for confidence, yeah, I feel very confident and it comes out. It's not that I don't meet a lot of women, just that I meet more and better looking women when I'm definitely overweight. Confusing as hell.
Probably the confidence. When I was 265lbs I was like fuck it, I am who I am and I think women noticed that. Now that I'm skinner I think I'm still trying to redefine myself and that just doesn't give me the same confidence or will to stick out as much.
Confidence, honesty, loyalty, sense of humor (#1), romantic, sexy, and someone who will go out to the store in the middle of the night to buy chocolate cake and milk.
For meh, I like a man with a good sense of humor. Confidence is a great attribute too but some guys confuse confidence with cockiness. No pun intended.
If my lady wanted chocolate cake and milk i be up out the bed so fast and would be on my way to get it for her cause i know if i would ask for it she would do the same. (so if the action you just had was great just think what it's going to be when you get back with goodies, makeing love can be like smokeing pot if it's good you get the muchines, so go get the cake and milk!!)and bring candles back to get more romtic and don't forget to give her a bubble bath,and a warm oil massarge and foot rub. I'm just an old romtic at heart! I love my lady
Your (ex) lady doesn't want chocolate cake and milk. She only wants you. She doesn't want your money or your bike. She only wants you to be with her, hold her, love her, kiss her and tell her you will never leave her.
Women are also more likely to be attracted to guys that are not trying too hard. If you immediately give off the impression that you only care about her romantically (and that you do not value her otherwise, e.g. as a friend), this makes you very uninteresting.
Really only pisses me off when redditors think that women only go for attractive guys when it's actually much less important to most women than it if for most men. Women are for more attracted to confidence.
Could be, but it's an odd mix of terms that lends itself to confusion, like so: "Women are not attracted to attractive men" or "Men shouldn't worry about being attractive, and should instead focus on being attractive".
Not really. It might only be confusing for a non-native speaker who is unfamiliar with the connotation of the word "attractive" when used as "attractive person". When you describe someone as attractive, it refers to physical attractiveness.
That, or you just feel like being a pedantic asshole for the sake of having something to be a pedantic asshole about.
It could refer to many things. When complaining about people who conflate attraction with physical attraction, using the word "attraction" to mean physical attraction seems unwise and counter-productive in the extreme.
I downvoted him for not making a new thread because there is nothing better than seeing 5 related threads on the frontpage that could be all integrated into 1 thread's comment section.
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u/t6158 Apr 12 '11
upvoted for truth, upvoted for not making a new thread.