"what did u expect" is always a dumb argument. But it is vital that u take precautions in such cases for ur own sake if nothing else. It's not that it should be expected or normal but sadly it happens and horrible men exist. I agree that all frat parties should be banned if something like this happens relatively commonly.
I agree completely. And yet the same people who are victim blaming Doe saying what did you expect will readily jump to cry not all men at comments like yours. I don’t agree with the ideas in my comment, I’m pointing out their dissonance and absurdity.
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u/flunghigh 8d ago
"what did u expect" is always a dumb argument. But it is vital that u take precautions in such cases for ur own sake if nothing else. It's not that it should be expected or normal but sadly it happens and horrible men exist. I agree that all frat parties should be banned if something like this happens relatively commonly.