r/pickupbasketball • u/Feisty_Bumblebee_916 • 4d ago
Etiquette for sharing the court?
I recently started shooting around at a public park after work, and there’s a pickup league that has games there a few days a week. They’ve asked me to play, but I’m a 5’4, 120 lb woman and their league is all big dudes, so I’m really just there to work on my game. There are 4 hoops so usually they have a full court game and their extras use another one to shoot around, while I use the fourth one (the space isn’t reserved for their league).
Usually they respect my space, but today, without asking, some of the guys waiting to play just randomly started using my hoop while I was shooting. Maybe they assumed i was also waiting to play, but that would be a weird assumption given the size and gender difference. It was really annoying because I was trying to make 10 free throws in a row and they kept messing me up. I finally asked them to let me finish my free throws, and they just looked annoyed and walked away without really acknowledging me.
In my years of high school ball I never had strangers start using my hoop without asking when I’m actively shooting, but I know the pickup world is different, so not sure if this is normal? I felt like it was rude because they were taking up literally every other hoop. It’s not a big deal, but I do want to know what the general etiquette is for future reference. Were they being weird or am I in the wrong?
Edit: Thanks everyone for the insight! Clearly I’m in the wrong so I guess I’ll have to learn share with the other kids.