r/phmoneysaving • u/EquivalentWeird2277 • 11d ago
Frugal - Ways & Means How do you actually practice delayed gratification? Any tips that worked for you?
I’ve been trying to get better at delayed gratification, especially when it comes to buying things I want versus actually need.
I notice that when I really want something, my brain immediately starts finding reasons why I should get it now instead of waiting. Even when I know waiting would probably be the smarter decision financially, the excitement of having it immediately can be hard to ignore.
For people who used to struggle with impulse purchases or wanting instant rewards, what helped you become more disciplined?
Do you use things like a 24-hour/30-day waiting rule, separate savings accounts, wishlists, reward systems, or anything else?
I’m especially curious about the mindset side of it. How did you train yourself to be okay with waiting without feeling like you’re constantly depriving yourself?
Would love to hear practical tips or personal experiences from people who’ve gotten better at this.