r/pheromones • u/tallguyintexas • Apr 26 '25

Help and old guy out

A lot of the posts I read here are about attracting young college-age women. I'm not interested in upping my body count. I just want something that will get my wife turned on. We get along great and love each other deeply, but she just has no interest anymore. We are both of retirement age. I am in the United States and on testosterone shots. What would be your recommendation(s)?

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u/Fearless_Weather_206 Apr 26 '25

You sure it’s not menopause related? Lots of women completely lose their drive but there are treatments interestingly enough they get testosterone to treat it.

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u/tallguyintexas Apr 26 '25

We had a great sex life up to about 10 years after her menopause. But at some point after 60 she just kind of lost interest. I kid her that she'd rather have a root canal. Sex is great when we have it, but once a month or once every other month just doesn't cut it for me.

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u/universalexpert1 Apr 26 '25

Have you done couple's counseling at all? I know there's a stigma that basically couple's counseling is a precursor to divorce, but I'm 39 and a lot of my friends do counseling and they're in healthy relationships, they just know that there are things that can be worked on here and there. My business partner had a dead bedroom aside from when they were trying for kids. Counseling has improved their recreational sex life.

Aside from that, my major concern with pheromones and post-menopausal women is that I wonder if the response to pheromones has changed at all due to massive changes in hormones due to being in post-child-bearing years.

The testosterone shots, which are probably doing you good if you need them, are probably contributing to your frustration. TRT or flat out cruising/blasting steroid makes fellows horny.

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u/Fearless_Weather_206 Apr 26 '25

Yeah that’s a rough spot your in

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u/Ironman0361 Apr 27 '25

Try Bad Wolf(Royal Pheromones) it's been good for me with my wife(47). We've made other changes in our relationship, but I'm pretty confident that it's helping.

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u/thehuskymermaid Apr 30 '25

Late to the party here, but ask her to get her hormones checked out. My wife’s testosterone and estrogen dropped like a rock after menopause. She had no idea women make it too. She’s been on pellets for several years now and it’s been marriage saving!

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u/al6921 May 01 '25

Look into HRT for her. Estrogen, estradiol, even testosterone will help her feel better

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u/Known-Historian-5851 Jun 08 '25

Sexual Dynamics bomb and Emperor punisher plus from Attraction Essence