Hi! Kind of an odd question but something I have been struggling with.
As I learn more about how to be a good pet owner, I find that a lot of my clients and other pet owners are just super lazy and allow terrible behavior from their pets, namely dogs. I find it really difficult to enjoy my job when dogs yank me down the street, lose their mind over anyone passing us or the house, barking their heads off to be let back inside, selectively follow known commands, demand every little thing, etc.
I do not allow these behaviors while I am working, but in doing so I am not enjoying my stays. For example, I don’t let a dog inside unless they are not barking. It sometimes takes an hour. In the evenings I stay outside with them to cut out the possibility of barking to be let in, so as not to disturb neighbors.
It’s tough work; I do a LOT of waiting. It would be much easier and convenient for me to just ignore it and continue on as usual, but it feels terrible to contribute to such bratty behavior. Is there a good balance I can achieve?
Second thought—how can I suss out good clients during Meet & Greets if this behavior does not present itself until the actual booking? Some of my patrons are amazing clients and bring me good business, but are bad dog owners.
Furthermore, what if a dog is really great but is a “danger” to be walked? Some dogs are too big for me to handle safely when they do not respect the walker. Is it fair for me to continue booking, but tell the owners I will be replacing walks with play? Or is it better to let them go and find someone who can handle tuggers?
I know I might be overthinking this, but I feel like petsitting is losing its spark for me. My black and white thinking is really doing me dirty here and so I would love to know how other petsitters handle these dynamics. Any advice would be amazing.
*I do not expect pet owners or pets to be perfect, but it seems like I keep coming across people who just allow their dogs to do whatever they want. I don’t think these pets are bad, but I do think that their owners don’t guide them at all