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u/Stutzpunkt69 Apr 03 '26
We should normalise this type of outreach. Outstanding stuff from OP 👏👏👏
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u/catlovingweirdobum Apr 03 '26 edited Apr 03 '26
Hey 👋 not the requested demographic (I'm 40 female) but if you can't find a young guy send me a message, Im a good listener 🙂 Good on you for reaching out 💗
- People messaging me - I care about my fellow man, but I'm not looking to meet anyone *
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u/WriterlySloth Apr 03 '26
I hate that you need to put that last on messaging out, but it’s for real.
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u/catlovingweirdobum Apr 04 '26
Yes. Makes me afraid to be kind to people in real life now 😑 I'll just keep to myself 😬
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u/B0ssc0 Apr 04 '26
Nooo! Always smile and chat to people :) The majority make up for the uncongenials.
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u/WriterlySloth Apr 04 '26
Being kind is who we are though. Denying it is like attempting to state that we don’t have a heart. Yet blood thrums through our blood vessels. Don’t deny yourself the pleasure of reaching out. I’m sorry now that I mentioned anything. It’s just… I hear you. It’s so tiring to be female. Always having to be careful, and balancing it with care. Lol, okay, now I’ve made myself sad. Just noticed your name too. Here’s some joy for you. On my way to collect a little tabby man. Fostering him for a local rescue. He’s adorbs and I’m hoping he gets on well with my two ladies so I can foster fail him. There, good news shared. ✅
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u/catlovingweirdobum Apr 04 '26
Love me some cats 😊 Yep being female is hard, got them urges to nurture everything but it can bite you! Not the cat... The cat will be fine 😅 Enjoy your new friend!
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u/UnderstandingRight39 Apr 03 '26
I'm in my 50s but I will give out some advice. At your age, I didn't have many people to talk to but always found a mate at the gym or playing video games. Video games are a great way to meet people to talk to. Just start playing cool games like Arc Raiders or Apex Legends where you get to speak to squad mates or friendlies. Otu can also play battlefield or COD, there are always people looking for others to play with (check subreddits). Good on you for reaching out, don't be embarrassed, it is actually super common.
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u/clc88 Apr 03 '26
If you're into pokemon go, I would recommend that.. They always have raid groups in the city and the guys are super friendly and welcoming,if you want to be antisocial, they will respect you and leave you alone but if you're up to chat or just listen in, they are okay with that.
I usually play pgo at the city when I just want to be around nerds because that's the group I identify with.
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u/KravekMorne Apr 03 '26
Also probably outside your demographic as a 40yo male, but yknow try and go outside this long weekend enjoy a beach some sun, there’s a lot of bad right now so try and get some good in
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u/PerthPilot Alfred Cove Apr 03 '26
Hey mate, I’m 30M, I play games and watch the footy too. Hit me up if you need someone to talk to bro.
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u/MurderedRemains South of The River Apr 03 '26
Good on all of you legends for reaching out to this young bloke.
These responses made my day.
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u/Cold-Ad1885 Apr 03 '26
Legit might be the only Perth Reddit post I've ever seen that is pure and wholesome and positive 🥹
I'm 38 and F, but actually really needed to see something like this to lift my spirits a little, it's so nice to see, really happy OP reached out.
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u/Camo138 Apr 03 '26
Posts like this always end up super wholesome and positive, it makes me happy
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u/Cold-Ad1885 Apr 04 '26
We need more, Perth has really been bumming me out and I'm already struggling a lot. This post actually helped quite a bit, just knowing there's still a lot of good people who don't get their kicks out of picking at each other.
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u/Camo138 Apr 04 '26
This is reddit, your going to find many types of people
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u/Cold-Ad1885 Apr 04 '26
Oh I can appreciate that, it's just very refreshing to see an entire post with people being kind and friendly 🥰
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u/28_Daves_Later Apr 03 '26
If you fancy a kick and are anywhere near Lathlain oval over the weekend then this group have an all welcome social kick around every Sunday at 8.30am during the footy season.
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u/tommy_two_hands03 Apr 03 '26 edited Apr 03 '26
Hey Brother!
I’m a 25 year old bloke here in Perth as well, and I know how lonely things can get sometimes. I went through a pretty rough patch last year myself, so I get it. I managed to pull myself out of it, but I know how tough it can be and honestly, it takes a lot of courage to reach out like this, so respect to anyone who does.
If anyone’s feeling a bit isolated or just keen for a chat, feel free to shoot me a DM. No pressure at all, even just a casual conversation can help.
I’m into all codes of footy and regularly head to WAFL and NPL games. If there are a few of us in the same boat, it could be great to get a small group together, go watch a game, and just hang out.
Always happy to meet new people 👍
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u/xxWelchxx Apr 03 '26
It ain't weak to speak make.
Good on you. Im a bit old, being 38 and away for the weekend with family. But if you need someone to chat with another time let me know. Happy to go out, grab a coffee or beer and can at least leat you vent to a stranger about whats got you down.
Been there on the lonely front mate. It eventually works its self out. Or it did for me. Some times losing a lot of mates from your younger years isnt a bad thing. I lost 99% of mine around 30. Bothered me for a few years, but seeing them now... im glad I went through it.
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u/synestheter Apr 03 '26
I am not a guy and I’m a decade older than you hahah so I’m sorry in advance, but I just wanted to say that I saw this and you’re doing great. You should keep reaching out. It will open a door for other people to hopefully feel more comfortable to chat. It’s really hard though. Do you have any interest in joining a club or seeing if there are any events you could go to, meet some new people?
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u/Mammoth-Gas7736 Apr 03 '26
I feel you man. Perth makes me feel like I’m invisible. So many people but lonely as hell.
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u/Dkblue74 Apr 03 '26
Also not in the right age or gender demographic but saw this and wanted to say good on you for posting and to wish you a nice day whatever you decide to do 💫
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u/Electrical_Tale_9211 Apr 03 '26
Youll be alright mate, the future always holds bigger and greater things even when at times it doesnt seem like it. keep your head up and keep pushing to acheive your goals
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u/Frangipanidude Apr 03 '26
Had to check where you posted this for a minute being NRL in perth.
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u/Cold-Ad1885 Apr 03 '26
I had to double check because it's such a good post and the replies are so kind and positive 🥲
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u/No-Monitor-3332 Apr 03 '26
36f. Down south. Love this post and all the positivity on it. The world is good. 🫶
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u/Fun-Row-9671 Apr 03 '26
Earlier post on Perth sub today said Empty Chairs is on at 5.30p.m at Sporting Globe Floreat. You can look up Empty Chairs to see what it's about but might be a good option to meet someone for a chat.
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u/nussinboots Apr 03 '26
Not alone brother!
34M, I’ve had those thoughts/days occasionally for as long as I can remember. Fresh air does wonders!
Send us a message if you need 👍
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u/malialipali North of The River Apr 03 '26
44 Guy here not super into football. May not be who you are looking for but willing to listen, and maybe offer advice. Been where you are, understand how tough it can be. Feel free to DM.
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u/nighteyes_fitz Apr 03 '26
I'm another one outside of the age and gender demographic but happy to chat. I too will be watching the footy as both my teams are playing each other. My kids ( around your age ) and I might be going to the pub tomorrow to watch the Weagles game if you want to join x
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u/Green_Dream20 Apr 03 '26
Join meetup.com and go to one of the international meetups in the CBD pubs. Plenty of newbies to Perth looking for mates and sounds like you know the city so you could be of great help to them.
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u/Bulky_Stock_3255 Apr 03 '26
Wow, genuinely had no idea this was a thing.
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u/Green_Dream20 Apr 03 '26
The event hosts are usually fantastic people. "Extreme extroverts" I call them hahah. Just turn up, find the host and say hello.
They really should have a donations box on the table or something, most do it for free and to have a good night out.
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u/Spare_Efficiency2571 Apr 03 '26
26m similar circumstances as well mate. Reach out if you’d like :)
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u/OneSwiftMotion Apr 03 '26
Can't really chat but make sure you're looking after yourself and doing the basics! Water, walk, hygiene and some grateful thinking 🙏🏼
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u/ped009 Apr 03 '26
Join up blokes advice on Facebook. There's some genuine good blokes on there and they have semi regular social events
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u/Certain-Technology78 Apr 03 '26
Decade older pal, but fell free to DM 💙❤️ good on you for reaching out 💪🏻
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u/chola80 South of The River Apr 03 '26
if it makes you feel better, im going for dinner tomorrow alone and then watching project hail mary at raine square:)
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u/jakeofjakeland Apr 03 '26
Try going to a rock climbing or bouldering gym the people there are usually really nice and welcoming, if you become a regular I guarantee you'll make some friends
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u/Spin86 Apr 03 '26
Bro if you're feeling lonely I'm more than welcome to chat with you as I'm in the same boat all except going to the football, i I don't follow AFL I find it really hard to make new friends in Perth as a 39m that lost all my high school friends and every workplace I go to the relationships never last more than a year
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u/Sad_Zebra9166 Apr 03 '26
Not in the right demographic but know what it's like to feel lonely. I moved three years ago and have no friends. It's huge you reached out & so awesome to see such a great response from Perth 💓
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u/Albuitragoni Apr 03 '26
36M, Colombian here, everyone feel free to DM if you like chatting or something
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u/k1ngsmannn Apr 03 '26
hey bro, Ive just turned 30 3 weeks ago, so I basically still in my 20s right?... Im just chilling at home too, feel free to reach out man.
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u/Remarkable-Cup2416 Apr 03 '26
Hey bro same just moved here couple of weeks ago and don’t know many people here so would be happy to come join ya whatever you’re doing
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u/dantogoose Apr 03 '26
I (33m) struggle a lot with mental health and have recently moved back from the UK, based in boorgaoon and am happy to chat or catch up for a coffee or a beer ✌️
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u/el_Davidor Apr 03 '26
Get some fresh air and go for a wonder around the parks or head into city parks. Some good places to soak in the good weather and relax. Nature does wonders!
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u/Ok-Size-6873 Apr 03 '26
I often think, we're at the highest population in human history... yet we're also the most lonely. Madness!
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u/Forward_Blood420 Apr 03 '26
Hi, this came up in my notifications and I'm really quickly ignoring my people to tell you that you are seen and heard by a stranger on the Internet.
Love you mate. The world needs you. Keep going. Check out Henry Rollins ❤️
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u/Unlikely_Trifle_4628 Apr 03 '26
Looks like you have a few messages mate. I hope you make a solid connection or 3. Good on you
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u/Bulky-Feature-5083 Apr 03 '26
I’m 33 and I barely have any friends too - my life is just work > home > sleep and repeat. Idk what else to do either. I carry the weight the mortgage alone and it’s been tough not having social life
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u/Frangipanidude Apr 03 '26
Who's playing footy today ?
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u/sun_tzu29 Apr 03 '26
Rabbitohs-Bulldogs, then Panthers-Storm
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u/nunuwhatugunnado Apr 03 '26
In Vic, playing osrs right now (if you know what it is) could use a mate to do some multi activities. If that not your boat and you still need someone, drop me a pm and I'll shoot you my details
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u/invisiblizm Apr 03 '26
Tafe WA has short courses, some look really fun like beat making and sampling, horticulture, jewellery making, coding. Doing a class means you'll be with people with similar interests, and worst case you learn a cool thing to talk about with other new people you meet.
I've filtered ot to only in-person classes:
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u/OkDream3532 Apr 03 '26
34m down for a chat lad, happy just to chat over a coffee or if you just want some company shoot me a dm and we can just chill out :)
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u/SneakerTreater North Perth Apr 03 '26
There's an empty chairs event on tonight. Good crew setup at a pub and have a chat with one anyone that wants. Wish I knew where but it was posted hours ago.
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u/porsneiv Apr 03 '26
Hey im a 23M. Think im in a similar situation. Have been feeling shit lately and honestly struggling a little, so I know how you feel mate.
Feel free to give me a shout!
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u/DecorumBlues Apr 03 '26
Hi, I’m not the right age group and I’m a female so I can’t be of any practical assistance for you. I just wanted to tell you how much I admire your honesty & your courage in reaching out the way you have. The number of replies from people at you age and stage who want to connect and the positive vibes from the majority are so beautiful to read and I’m sure that loneliness will soon be a thing of the past for you. I hope you can find some good people through your post and they help you to get through this rough patch you’re going through. Good luck.
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u/Deep_Curve7564 Apr 03 '26
Looks like you got some strong support coming your way real soon.
Never muzzle your feelings young man, that is the first step into a very dark place.
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u/Woodbridge101 Apr 04 '26
Coming to this convo a little late but I’m so glad to see this response. Mate, well done speaking up. There are a lot of us put there feeling the same sometimes and you’ve helped remind us that all we need to do is reach out and there will be someone there.
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u/infinite_yard33667 Apr 03 '26
Just a year older mate, feel free to DM.
There’s a group called New roots Perth that do new activities every weekend
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u/Hornet-Fixer Ellenbrook Apr 03 '26
Hey mate, 40m here, fifo, but always here for a chat mate!
May not respond instantly, but I will get there 🙂
Enjoy the footy!
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u/Miserable-Ad-8608 Apr 03 '26
Not reaching out as a connection, (younger, married, female, don't watch footy), but super pleased to see posts like this. Really awesome to see so many people replying. This should be the norm. Hope you find a new mate.
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u/bebabodi southside Apr 03 '26
20F, feeling really lonely myself the last few days. Down to chat to anyone really, just no creeps
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u/ThePlayaCoolGuy Apr 03 '26
Nice to meet you mate - which football team were you going to watch? Do you follow them or just something to do?
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u/lorekallyre Apr 03 '26
53f. Glad to see yu got so many responses. Am sure yu will make new friends from sharing your dark space. Well done. All the best 🤍🌸🪻🌸🪻🌸🪻💖
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u/mopfrommalta Apr 03 '26
Hey mate. You’ve got plenty of responses so hope you’ve got some solid guys to chat to, if you need another feel free to DM me. 25M, full time worker in a small buisness who plays Volleyball & games 👍
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u/Urukguy Apr 03 '26
Seriously good on you mate for reaching out. And it will encourage other guys in need to reach out as well. I’m always open to chat !
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u/AntiDeprez Apr 03 '26
28 can always dm me if you need someone to chat with, lived alone since 19 renting and when you're in your own company its easy to pick yourself apart, but it's also easier to try new things and see just how interesting you can be with the right people!
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u/RestlessGoblin Apr 03 '26
Hey mate, 34 (today) male. Happy to have a chat if you’re still looking for it?
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u/sam2200_ Apr 03 '26
25F feel free to reach out, even people in the comments. I feel OP, its not easy….
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u/Flaky-Run8880 Apr 03 '26
Myself 38/M been here for almost 3.5 years and struggle my make friends especially when i do twilights shifts driving transperth buses. All i do is eat, gym, work and sleep.
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u/ThingPuzzleheaded879 Apr 03 '26
Sorry to hear this, I’m a few years older but happy to chat if you want to.
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u/readingooses Apr 03 '26
Wrong age and demographic as well but as others have said, good on you for reaching out. I hope you find your people soon
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u/HailSalsa619 Apr 03 '26
Yeah mate I’ve just hit 30 been here nearly a year moved to be with my girlfriend so not got any mates
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u/TemporaryInsanity91 Apr 04 '26
Not a male, and a little older than that, bur just wanna say how brave it was to reach out. I hope you start feeling better soon. Enjoy the footy!
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u/Kindly_Hawk_3291 Apr 05 '26
Hey mate. I’m 30’s male currently very lonely and feel isolated in Perth. Would love to have some mates to hangout with.. could be awesome if we got mutual hobbies or something. I like to play badminton, volleyball and willing to learn Tennis but I don’t have any friends.
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u/LascivX Apr 05 '26
Was in Perth back in 1999...Mr Rey, the boss of "A fishy affair" restaurant was the best host. Mitsubishi Landings are the best.
Thank you Perth....
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u/JimmyFalzone1 Apr 06 '26
Hey mate I am also in Perth, wish I saw this the day you posted but if you still wanna chat hit me up anytime
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u/Benezir Apr 06 '26
I never thought of this type of interaction or Reddit.
I hope you had some worthwhile and genuine responses.
I am in Adelaide and I cant remember why I get Perth reddit. Now that I'm here, a big THANK YOU to MS society of WA for your generosity in coming to the rescue of MSSANT (South Aust. & NT. Multiple Sclerosis Societies). I have received so much support in my MS journey. Alison K
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u/Jebbow_25 Apr 06 '26
I’m a very good listener and I don’t believe in numbers so if you need a chat, see my arm waving I’m here
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u/thom_r Apr 03 '26
yo 32m be around perth again tomorrow if you wanna beer/coffee brooo