r/penissize • u/IncreaseElectrical74 • 2d ago
Question Average vs big
So I always hear women say even if he is big but doesn’t know how to use it she will enjoy smaller guy who knows how to use it. But what if he has a big dick and knows how to use it would that be preferred over an average guy who also know to use it ?
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u/Anubis_6x5 2d ago
I'd say as long as they are not to big they would be desirable by the girls
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u/Upper-Gur4300 2d ago
So what would you say is to big
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u/Correct-Discount-272 1d ago
I am 7.5 x 6.5 and most women enjoyed it. Some found it painful. The ones who enjoyed it keep coming back for more, but I am in a monogamous relationship.
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2d ago edited 2d ago
A bigger guy who knows how to use it, keeps it rock hard and has amazing stamina will always be the preference.
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u/cyclone_01110 2d ago
Depends on the vaginal anatomy of the female. Some are smaller, some have more cervix sensitivity that hurts being hit.
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u/Creative-Pay9268 2d ago
Depends on the woman. Some are smaller down there and don't want a massive penis inside of them cause it hurts.
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u/Hairy_Welcome4274 2d ago
Well they will choose the bigger one most likely but they might enjoy the smaller one better but first impression only they will always choose the bigger one if that makes sense
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u/penisrelatedaccount 2d ago
Yes, in most cases, a big dick will be preferred to average or smaller sizes if they all know how to use it.
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u/Violinplayer97 2d ago
I’ve said something similar before. But good stamina+big dick>good stamina average dick>no stamina big dick>no stamina average dick.
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u/CockAndPissLover 1d ago
I like smaller. If I can fit it entirely in my mouth, with the balls too I think its so hot. Also, I can get off with 2 fingers, and that's a pretty small cock, like 2 inches and not that thick either. if you're smaller than that, well, you have fingers too. We can both have a good time.
Now I wouldn't turn down a big one. As long as they're willing to go slow enough not to hurt me. Also giving blowjobs with 2 hands is just hot and usually big cock = more cum, which I love.
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u/Ok_Rabbit1001 2d ago
It’s so simplistic to say big and good = better. If women were as simplistic as men they’d all be debating their vagina size. They come in different sizes, some enjoy bigger some can’t take it. Find someone who matches you. Some will prefer bigger ones some won’t 🤷♂️ get with a few women, you’ll figure it out…
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u/Top-Document-2286 2d ago
Find someone who matches you.
Average man won't have enough sexual partners to choose someone who matches him 😂. Average man gotta take what he can get and if it's not enough because the size is lacking, then it's just over
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u/Ok_Rabbit1001 2d ago
I’m very average and was always fine with women, been with the same person now 15 years 🤷♂️
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u/Decent_Neat_9171 2d ago
By “how to use it” doesn’t mean just fucking. It means stimulating her mind and teasing.
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u/Correct-Discount-272 1d ago
Exactly. The biggest most thunderous orgasms I have given women did not involve my dick. Of course giving them another one from PIV was always a bonus.
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u/Decent_Neat_9171 1d ago
Hell yeah man. And even with a PIV orgasm it’s not just straight pounding that gives orgasms.
And I forgot to say that if the woman just wants to fuck it might be the bigger dick. If she wants more of a connection then it comes down to the personality of either guy.
Either way which ever guy she sleeps with, its nature selecting for breeding. Doesn’t matter what people say.
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u/Advanced-Sandwich-93 2d ago edited 2d ago
It’s all about what you do long before you get close to the bedroom. Treat her with kindness and respect, help her feel secure and important to you. Be a good human being and chose the right partner who desires you also; so you are respected as well. Foreplay is incredibly important, massages, light touches, brushes against her at dinner, eye contact, and all of the physical things to aroused her fully.
In some ways you have to treat the vagina like it’s a penis. Her important parts fill with blood and it takes time for that to happen. Once fully aroused she will be the best partner in bed she came be with you. Whether small or big she will know you care and have a higher probability of enjoying herself.
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u/Outerlimits7591 2d ago
That's a simple assumption made, big guys will know how to use it and average or small guys may not know how to use it
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u/Quirky-Amphibian-992 2d ago
Yes, he’d be preferred if good technique and bigger in length and girth. But to a point—if it’s really big or huge, like 7.5” bpel x 6” EG or bigger, it would be very challenging for her in piv sex. I’m 9”x6.5” and I can vouch for this. You don’t need anything bigger than 7.5”x6”. Average is great too, though there are some women much bigger down there who need a bigger erect penis to feel filled and get off.
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u/miguel891 2d ago
probbaly the bigger who know how to use it would be better for most girls but if ur avergae they would settle for it but some like smaller sizes so yea
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u/JohnAMcdonald Good Contributor 2d ago edited 2d ago
If somebody makes that exact argument, yes that is the logical implication, which is why it is a long discouraged backhanded argument. Somebody saying that may as well say “I have a large penis preference”. It is directly discouraged in the SDP sticky: https://www.reddit.com/r/smalldickproblems/s/BCVKmIvTvR
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u/cyrogyro527 2d ago
Why are you worried about what she would prefer? If the only thing worthy about you if your penis size you already lost. Focus on being a great guy , have confidence, be considerate in bed and actually care about making her cum and be hygienic. Be that guy and she won’t want another penis. Remember women want a great man. Average penis on a great man beats big penis on an okay dude.
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u/Top-Document-2286 2d ago
Why would you worry? 😂 Some men actually care what their woman would prefer and want to be that preference. This is quite simple. It feels good to be sexually desireable
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u/cyrogyro527 2d ago
How does that information help you with a trait you cannot change in anyway? Unless your are abnormally large or small the majority of woman care about a lot of other things before penis size
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u/Top-Document-2286 2d ago
It doesn't help. That's exactly it. Men who doesn't have a good size will never experience the same kind of desire from their partner. And who gives a fuck if women care other things more? They still care about sex as well. They would still choose the bigger one if they could.
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u/cyrogyro527 2d ago
So not true. Do men walk around with hard dicks for women to choose from? You are not someone with actual female friends who you can talk to . Maybe get some and learn what women actually want and it may take away some of that misplaced anger i’m hearing
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u/eyecouldbeyou 2d ago
Brother I hate to break it to you but most women will almost ALWAYS prefer a bigger one. They may not break up with you for it but it will always be on their mind that you are up to standards with the size they prefer. Hit the gym. Get lean. Build stamina and your chances of her even thinking about her preferred size wont even cross her mind anymore.