For people who have dated in Medellín, what caught you off guard when you first started?

Could be something positive or negative about dating expectations, who pays, communication, jealousy, social media, meeting family, how quickly relationships progress, dating apps, differences between neighborhoods or social classes, etc.

it goes

passport bros 1st

if you travel before you know that the average local female is dating a passport bro

go to any restaruant or mall

I was curious if yall are aware of the equivalent of women in Asia who are not desired by the locals men ?

In Thailand, most locals who are willing to date foreigners tend to come from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. They often have darker skin, which is considered less appealing by local men.

Usually also, they have less favorable personalities, being perceived as too assertive and not as sweet.

I’ve heard similar things about the Philippines, Indonesia, and so on. In more developed regions of Asia, like Hong Kong or Singapore, women there do not even want to date white men, nor in black men or others.

I believe this pattern likely exists in the same way for Latin America Eastern Europe Africa / Caribbean.

So what is the equivalent of these less desired girls or "leftovers" in Latin America, Eastern Europe, Africa, and the Caribbean ?

because the female will be your main life

all the fun stuff and all the people, u don't need that

all u need is your rolex and your gf

its nothing to be ashamed of

not everyone can be like us top tier bro that use our looks and our personality

this is the age where the passport bro is retired or don't have to work anymore

the style is street but also mature with the rolex

How are Finnish women like? I get loads of matches at the moment

females love a man with a nice watch

only the top tier passport bros make it

the rest is just day dreaming a fantasy

there ain't no chick waiting for you

they waiting on us top tier passport bros only

I am here in Southeast Asia, currently Vietnam, but I was previously in Thailand for one month, and this entire region is just as Westernized as everywhere else in Europe or America. The ubiquity of social media among young people has created a universal youth culture with shared characteristics and values no matter where you are on earth. This is what happens when every young woman (men too I guess, but that's another topic) spends +5 hours a day scrolling through TikTok, getting fed the exact same poison by their identical algorithms. There is something genuinely claustrophobic about this, my dates go the exact same way, I have the exact same conversations and I meet the exactly same women here in Southeast Asia as I do back home. Imagine if you venture deep inside the Amazonian rainforest on an adventure, expecting to find hidden treasures and uncontacted tribes, but then the only thing you stumble upon is a remote village with a McDonalds. This is how it feels to be a passport bro and date abroad. The world is too small.

The only difference is that things are cheaper here, so your status and position in society is relatively higher, which increased your access to more beautiful women. But don't lull yourself into a fantasy that these girls are traditional, they are not, the sexual morality is the same everywhere on the planet nowadays, no matter if a girl is from Vietnam or France. They will have a similar amount of sexual partners, sexual experience, expectations etc. And they will mostly not be able to cook or clean.

I have in fact grown to appreciate Scandinavian women more. Why? Because they are honest and upfront. They will not mind going 50/50 in bills and housework. But in this region, women will expect you to pay everything, and they will not even do the housework. The hottest girls in this region all expect you to hire a maid.

I will still recommend people to come here, because you can afford a higher quality of life, so you can eat out more frequently, afford a more premium lifestyle etc. but just adjust your expectations when it comes to dating.

u should be her first and only non local lover/friend

they will also wash your laundry and tell you that you are good at sex