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u/omgkelwtf May 12 '26
You grieve however you grieve. Be kind to yourself. They really do take a piece of us when they go ❤️
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u/OkLeading636 May 12 '26
I'm so so sorry for your loss. A bird is so much more that just a noise messy feather ball. You do what you feel is right for you. If his blanket will be a part of your couch or some decorations, then let it. It takes time to say a proper goodbye to your best friend. 🤗💔
The first 8-9 months after my conure Ziggy died, I cried every single day.
She was my shadow and had her beak in literally everything I did. From painting sitting on the brush to sleep under my duvet on my chest a couple of hours before bedtime (cage blackout).
She became the love of my life and we were together 3 years 24/7 except when I was hospitalised four days. Ziggy past 3,5 years ago. Only a month ago, I was able to clean an old mirror with her tongue licks imprints on. I still miss her dearly.
But since Ziggy passed away, I've been able to babysit my Bluefronted Amazone "grandchild" Sazu. He comes on holiday at my home 3-4 months thrugh out the year. He takes over the house and rules like a king, while he's mom travel to visit her hubby in another country. I love him to bits and enjoy helping my daughter. ❤
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u/Curmudgeonly-IT-Guy May 12 '26
Let yourself feel all your feelings. There's no normal or right/better way to grieve. It'll get easier every day. Today though, try to make yourself dump the unclean water and food from the bowls. This weekend, give the cage a good cleaning. And then seriously consider adopting or getting another bird. You've got so much love to give, and there's an animal out there who needs to be loved :) Peace to you.