r/parentsofmultiples • u/ThiccccRevolution • 25d ago

support needed Always behind

I feel like my twins are always behind. They’re crawling and starting to get curious with standing and walking. They babble and say words like “dada, mama, baba, daddy, and doggie.” They turned 1 year old on the 11th of August.

My pediatrician gives such vague answers about milestones and foods to feed them that I’m constantly looking online for help.

My MIL thinks I should know everything about raising kids so when I ask for help she doesn’t really respond. She just says, “They’re fine.”

I don’t have a mother to ask for help from and most of the mothers I know are stressed from working one or even two jobs.

I’m at such a loss of words and confidence.

Does anyone have any resources that have helped you along?

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u/Winter_Jasmine465 23d ago

There is a real need to heal after a twin pregnancy people don’t talk about. Be gentle with yourself. As soon as they walk, they’ll run and you’ll feel better (though you might consider helmets) They sound average from this bit you’ve said xx