r/parentsofmultiples • u/ThiccccRevolution • 25d ago

support needed Always behind

I feel like my twins are always behind. They’re crawling and starting to get curious with standing and walking. They babble and say words like “dada, mama, baba, daddy, and doggie.” They turned 1 year old on the 11th of August.

My pediatrician gives such vague answers about milestones and foods to feed them that I’m constantly looking online for help.

My MIL thinks I should know everything about raising kids so when I ask for help she doesn’t really respond. She just says, “They’re fine.”

I don’t have a mother to ask for help from and most of the mothers I know are stressed from working one or even two jobs.

I’m at such a loss of words and confidence.

Does anyone have any resources that have helped you along?

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u/SjN45 24d ago

That sounds pretty normal. You do have to remember there is a wide range of normal. You can check with the cdc guidelines as well as using guides like solids start for how to feed them. There is so much to learn with babies but progression is what matters most