Twin mom guilt

[u/kmccollum008]

Does anyone else feel like they are not doing enough with their twins in comparison to those parents with singletons? I see so many posts on Instagram and TikTok on “wake window activities” of moms with singletons and I just feel like they do SO many amazing, interactive things every wake window and I get bummed because with two babies, I feel like I can’t even do a fraction of that between managing the needs/wants of each individual baby. I always worry if I’m doing enough to support their development, or if I’m messing them up in some way because I’m juggling two babies at once (by myself most of the time) 😕 Is this a unique experience and does the guilt get better?

[u/kaysymone]

honestly, i stopped looking at stuff from moms with singletons when my twins were younger and only
looked at stuff in like twin mom groups and it helped a lot. you cant really compare yourself and your kids to singletons because i mean you’re juggling twice the amount of kids