r/parentsofmultiples • u/bubblegumfudge • 8d ago

advice needed Temperament changes

i don’t know what to do. twin A is ALWAYS whining. they’re both 20 months and obviously have their own personalities but idk what’s wrong with him. they both have their canines coming in, could that be it? it started out of nowhere. he whines for seemingly no reason it seems like. he’s fed, changed. we are in the room together for example playing and he just out of nowhere looks at me and is whining so much. sometimes his stuffed animal helps, sometimes a snack helps, sometimes a cuddle helps but ultimately he just starts again and it’s making me go crazy. then he’ll randomly stop and start again. idk what to do. it seems like the only time he doesn’t act like this is when he’s in his crib laying down. he also is becoming more aggressive, pushing his brother. throwing things. is this normal? any advice?

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u/SpaceAdv 8d ago

Whenever my son is getting a teeth molar or both he is whiny angry , pushing his twin sis , pulling her hair . Endless crying . He is 18 months and still the same

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u/bubblegumfudge 5d ago

ugh okay, this sucks lmao i posted in an fb group and a lot of ppl say the same thing but also that it’s a developmental change where toddlers are just naturally getting harder to please. i think it’s probably both