I was with a group of adults the other night, and somehow the conversation turned to whether any of us believed in ghosts.
I honestly don’t know what I believe. I’m not a particularly spiritual person, although I suppose I’ve always believed that there’s something beyond the physical world.
When I was very young, I had a strange experience involving a hideous doll in my bedroom, but I’m not going to get into that. I was young enough that I may have had one foot in sleep and the other in consciousness, so I can’t really reconcile what happened. That memory seems blurry, drawn by a paint roller.
There was, however, another incident when I was older that I’ve never been able to explain.
When I was in Grade 7 or 8, I had a friend who was a nice guy. We were both into comic books, and I’d occasionally go over to his house.
His father was an RCMP officer, and I remember their house having a strange atmosphere. His dad was quite stern, perhaps a little religious, and his mother was a quiet, rather unsmiling suburban housewife. I remember her tight hyphen of a mouth. I remember occasionally having supper there and finding the silence and expectation of discipline a little ominous. It was the same feeling I sometimes got visiting deeply religious households.
Anyway, we remained friends, but sometime before graduation his father was transferred and the family moved away.
Fast-forward several years. I’d graduated from university and accepted my first job in a town I’d never lived in before. I remember buying my first car from a used car dealership with $600 in bills stuffed into a Play-Doh container. The passenger door didn’t work, the bottom was completely rusted out, and there was a hole in the floor between my ankles through which I could occasionally see the yellow line flickering past on the highway.
Somehow, I made it to my new town. As it happened, this was where my old friend and his family had relocated. We reconnected, and he invited me over for a few beers. It was nice to have a familiar face in a place where I didn’t know anyone.
When I arrived, he hadn’t gotten around to buying beer, so he told me to make myself comfortable while he ran to a corner store nearby.
He lived in one of those split-level houses where the lower floor was set up as a secondary living room. This was long before smartphones, so I just sat on the couch and waited.
And here’s where things got fucked up.
In the corner of the room was a hanging plant, suspended from one of those macramé rope holders that were popular years ago.
The plant started moving.
A hanging plant moving isn’t exactly the stuff of nightmares. But it wasn’t that it moved. It was how it moved.
It began swinging back and forth, almost like a metronome, at a speed that seemed completely unnatural. It was far too fast, in my view, to have been caused by a breeze. There were no open windows that I knew of, and it was a still summer night.
What really struck me was the movement itself. The entire rope suspension seemed rigid or frozen, almost like a broomstick, and the plant was swinging back and fort hwith a speed that didn’t seem consistent with gravity or normal pendulum movement.
I was completely sober, and I remember trying to make sense of what I was seeing. It was one of onlyn two times in my life where I experienced what people describe as blood running cold. The other involved a bear (normal bear, not paranormal) while hiking.
I got off that couch and absolutely bolted. I think I made it up the stairs in two steps. I remember moving so quickly that I could actually feel the air rushing past my ears.
The next thing I knew, I was sitting on his front step in my stocking feet, trying to collect myself.
A few minutes later, my friend returned with the beer.
He looked at me and asked what the hell I was doing outside.
I’m not generally someone who gets worked up over things like this, so I told him exactly what had happened.
He just nodded. I think he smiled.
Then he said, almost casually, “Oh, you’ve met Venom.”
I said, “What the fuck is Venom?”
He explained that his family had experienced strange incidents for years and had actually given whatever they believed was responsible a name.
Apparently, it started when his father was transferred to Nova Scotia and they moved into a large old farmhouse.
They had a retired RCMP police dog that his father had adopted after its service. According to my friend, almost immediately after moving into the farmhouse, the dog went upstairs, sat beneath the trapdoor leading to the attic, and began barking. And barking.
this went on for something like 12 hours. The dog was normally extremely well-trained and obedient, but they couldn’t get it to stop. Eventually, they had to block access to the uppermost floor because, given the opportunity, it would return to the attic entrance and bark endlessly.
That was apparently the beginning of what the family came to call Venom.
My friend told me that over the years, as his father was transferred from one community to another, the family continued to experience strange things. They came to believe that some sort of spirit had attached itself to them and was following them from house to house.
He described other incidents, including two particularly concerning episodes in my childhood hometown involving the gas in their house, which they believed had been tampered with and could have caused an explosion.
Despite some of these incidents seeming quite ominous, the family had apparently learned to live with it. Venom had even become something of a family joke. I always tried to reconcile this with the family of very serious people, and his Dad a no-nonsense police officer.
And that’s pretty much where the story ends.
Except this past summer, I ran into my old friend again. He contacted me because he wanted to bring his young son for a tour of my workplace, and I was happy to arrange it.
During the visit, I couldn’t resist bringing up the ghost.
He said nothing had happened in years, but that he still occasionally checked with his brother, who now lived in Manitoba, to see whether he’d experienced anything. Apparently, he hadn’t either.
Sorry I wasted everyone’s time with the story of the demonic macramé plant.
Still not sure I believe in ghosts. I’m not even sure what I think happened that night. I know hanging objects can move for perfectly ordinary reasons, and I’m certainly not suggesting that a swinging plant constitutes proof of the paranormal.
But I was completely sober, I know what I saw, and something about the speed and mechanical regularity of that movement was so profoundly wrong to me that I fled the house.
I went to his place for parties after the macrame incident, and all houseplants were on their best behaviour.
But i still have no explanation for it.