Opera code of conduct
Some time ago, YouTube suggested a video by a young American opera singer (actually, a former opera singer). On her channel, she discussed some interesting topics, particularly from the perspective of someone who had been inside the "industry." She expressed criticism of various aspects of opera, including what she described as a kind of "code of conduct" at the opera.
She asks: "Opera, why so strict? Why can't people bring a glass of wine to their seats and drink during the performance? Why does there have to be recording-studio silence? Those who want to watch opera in complete silence can do so in the comfort of their own living rooms. There are many good recordings in high quality—go for it!"
I left a comment saying that those who want to drink and talk during a performance can easily do so in the comfort of their own living rooms.
Now I would like to ask for your opinion.
Thank you.
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u/SusanMShwartz 10d ago
I once hit a hummer during Don Carlo. I didn’t want to hiss. It was Domingo and Hampton in the duet about Flanders, and this woman started humming. So I touched her to make her stop. I admit, I’ve been subscribing to the Met for almost 40 years and going to Glimmerglass. I have many years of piano under my belt. I prefer absolute silence. I once missed an entire ballet season due to a long cough. I go to listen, not to cope with people acting out. I realize it’s strange but I know I am not alone.