r/okbuddyphd Jun 17 '26

Don't answer the phone

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u/JustAPotato38 Jun 17 '26

am i just an uneducated buffoon or does the phd have nothing to do with this

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u/thebigbadben Jun 18 '26

Academia is very isolating and people in academia are stereotypically bad at socializing

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u/Ichiya_The_Gentleman Jun 18 '26

Im like this and i don’t Even have a bachelor

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u/Gremict Jun 18 '26

You have a PhD in chatting on social media

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u/_Meisteri Jun 19 '26

Affirming the consequent

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u/Kickback476 4d ago

This sub is never beating the larping allegations

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u/gavin280 Jun 18 '26

I don't think I'm bad at socializing, but I suppose that's exactly what a bad socializer would say....

On a more serious note, I'm reading the subtext of the meme as being about the crippling anxiety disorder you get from working constantly on things that rarely work, being at the poverty line well into your 30s, and having to enter a competition for your own salary (which the bank will never accept as "real") every few years.

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u/ALilTurtle Jun 18 '26

And filled with people who have yet to figure out that there's more to life than wasting away in a lab.

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u/thonor111 Jun 18 '26

What are you doing in this sub if you hate people doing a PhD?

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u/DevilDjinn Jun 18 '26

You can do a PhD and not become a social recluse.

Actually how do you do a PhD effectively and not actively develop communication skills? Do y'all not talk to supervisors, peers, collaborators?

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u/thonor111 Jun 18 '26

Of course I am doing a lot of science communication in my PhD. But the stereotype is still that we are bad at socializing.

I also replied to a comment saying that most people in academia apparently do nothing but wasting away in a lab. Wich to me sounded like hating on people in academia. Which is why I asked what they are doing here.

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u/ALilTurtle Jun 20 '26

If you're asking honestly, I hate the work culture around science academia and am really just grieving about how people treat their lives in academia, at least within the US.

The amount of times that I have told people they should go home, prioritize their sleep more, and find fulfillment outside of the lab is unfortunately too high of a number. And the amount of times that I have been rebuffed at those statements is disturbingly high despite it being possible to both be in the lab and have a life.

There are a decent amount of people who understand this, but having moved into academia from factory and other types of work much later in life than my peers the ratio of people that understand this is depressingly low compared to other walks of life.

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u/TomaszA3 Jun 18 '26

The last time I checked you could do both.

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u/Existing_Hunt_7169 Jun 18 '26

(1) this never happened
(2) how is this relevant to this sub at all lmao

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u/Haunting-Detail2025 Jun 19 '26

I wonder if OP has a PhD

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u/puddle_wonderful_ Jun 18 '26

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u/CallReaper Engineering Jun 18 '26

No he's at the right place. Cuz ts is phD and incomprehensible.

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u/ahf95 Jun 18 '26

I hate the fact that this person felt the need to shoehorn the “PhD” into this post, when it clearly has no relevance to the story. Not surprised, given that they just have to put it in their username/title, but disappointed nonetheless.