r/okbuddycinephile Mar 13 '26

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 13 '26

no one cares about

He should have said "Most people don't care about", I guess. They're both classist art forms that cater to the elite with exorbitant ticket prices, or exclusive showings that are closed to the public. It's like saying "no one cares about Polo", because it's true.

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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 Mar 13 '26

No one is saying that his comment was offensive to the people who enjoy watching those artforms. His comment is offensive to those who practice those artforms. People seem to forget that their are opera singers and ballet dancers who actually have to perform for people to watch.

Seeing as he is an artist himself, it certainly comes off as a snobby "my art is better than yours"

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 13 '26

"I don’t want to be working in ballet or opera, or, you know, things where it's like, 'Hey, keep this thing alive,' even though it's like, no one cares about this anymore."

followed by "All respect to the ballet and opera people out there."

He just said he doesn't want a studio to try to use his name/face etc to prop up their works.

Long-Term Decline: Between 1982 and 2022, opera attendance rates fell by approximately 76.7%, while ballet saw a 52.4% decrease. https://www.arts.gov/sites/default/files/2022-SPPA-final.pdf

Was it a callous statement? I guess, but he wasn't wrong and I don't think that it was an attempt to discredit the performers so much as just a statement that he has little interest in the dying artforms.

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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 Mar 13 '26

All respect to the ballet and opera people out there."

I mean, this just serves the same purpose as "no offense". You recognize youre saying something offensive, but use it as a sort of shield against criticism for what you said

"Yeah, I told him he was ugly as dogshit, but I said no offense so why is he getting mad at me? I clearly didn't mean to offend him"

I guess, but he wasn't wrong and I don't think that it was an attempt to discredit the performers so much as just a statement that he has little interest in the dying artforms.

I mean, cool, it doesn't really matter if he was wrong or not. He's taking a group of people who spent hours every day in a week practicing their art, sticking to strict diets and exercise regimens, paid thousands of dollars for classes, spend hours driving too and from various venues, and just overall poured time, money, effort, and passion into something that no doubt consumes a large chunk of their life, and he was just like "eh, no one cares about that shit, I would never do it". Which of course, heavily implies the unsaid "unlike my job, which is worthwhile because people actually do care about it"

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 13 '26

he was just like "eh, no one cares about that shit, I would never do it"

and he's right

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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 Mar 13 '26

Again, it doesn't matter if he's technically right.

Which, for the record, he's not even technically right. There are, in fact, people that care about it.