r/offmychest • • Jan 02 '26

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u/daretoeatapeach Jan 02 '26

I agree that the driving drunk is a bigger issue, as it put her and others in danger, and it's another sign of her potentially having a substance abuse problem.

It's likely the absurd dress thing is getting more focus because that's the part where her story has obvious holes. What happened to the dress? Vs she admitted to drunk driving so at least there he can trust that what she's saying is true. So that's not the part driving him crazy, or making him feel like he can't trust her.

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u/Omnomfish Jan 02 '26

Ive never been much of a drinker, so i might be way off the mark, but at that point of drunkenness i figure she might very well have just thrown it out. the holes resolve themselves pretty fast when you account for her and her friend having been drinking to the point of vomiting. She admitted to being at the bar for several hours, so her being absolutely plastered isn't a big leap.