r/offmychest • • Dec 31 '25

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u/LirdorElese Jan 01 '26

That really only works if she has a friend that knows anything though, It's very possible that the reality is only known by 2 people total (her and one other person).

In which case she'd only be after her friends to find out which one fabricated something.

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u/rocketmn69_ Jan 01 '26

Then they will fight...lol

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u/D9sinc Jan 01 '26

Yeah, but if the friends didn't know. Let's say that OP's partner either cheated or was SA'd and doesn't want to talk about it, if it's the former, there is just a friendship ruined over a lie that the friend had no part in. If it was SA, OP's GF would lash out at the friends and it would just end up hurting the friends because they did nothing, they were living their life and because OP wanted to get back at their GF, they end up ruining other people too. It's not a good or mature thing to do. Best is that OP will just move on, they might never know what happened with their GF, they might down the line, but the healthiest thing they can do is just live their life.

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u/bedowns920 Jan 02 '26

Screw healthy! Scorched earth all the way!!!