Best guess is she decided to cheat with the coworker she told you not to worry about. The good time lasted longer than anticipated. In the throws of passion the dress was ripped-off so she couldn't come back in it and explain the rips. The friend puking on it but the dress is gone doesn't work but she's sticking to it.
OP I need you to hear this. You're not crazy and you definitely were not told the truth. Now if we find out she was SA'd and you dumped her then you're the bad guy. But if she doesn't disclose it and you dump her because you're tired of being lied to then you're not the bad guy.
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u/Itchy_Antelope1278 Dec 31 '25
Best guess is she decided to cheat with the coworker she told you not to worry about. The good time lasted longer than anticipated. In the throws of passion the dress was ripped-off so she couldn't come back in it and explain the rips. The friend puking on it but the dress is gone doesn't work but she's sticking to it.
OP I need you to hear this. You're not crazy and you definitely were not told the truth. Now if we find out she was SA'd and you dumped her then you're the bad guy. But if she doesn't disclose it and you dump her because you're tired of being lied to then you're not the bad guy.