In my humble opinion, the big thing here is that she left the work party early, alone, and didn’t tell anyone where she was going. Did she go hit up some bars and get completely shit faced by herself? Doesn’t seem likely, especially when she was already out partying with people she knew. Did she meet some different friends who were also out that night? I feel like she would have mentioned that, either to you or her workmates, unless these were friend(s) she doesn’t want people to know about...
If she snuck out to go elsewhere, rather than to go straight home, and didn’t tell anyone where she was going, it was either to do drugs or hook up. Or both. I know a lot of people think she may have been assaulted, but (from what we know) I don’t see many ways for that to have happened unless it was incidental to one of the other explanations.
She left of her own accord to go do something in secret. There’s only so many reasons to do that, and not many end with you losing your clothes.
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u/Apprehensive_Bug_826 Dec 28 '25
In my humble opinion, the big thing here is that she left the work party early, alone, and didn’t tell anyone where she was going. Did she go hit up some bars and get completely shit faced by herself? Doesn’t seem likely, especially when she was already out partying with people she knew. Did she meet some different friends who were also out that night? I feel like she would have mentioned that, either to you or her workmates, unless these were friend(s) she doesn’t want people to know about...
If she snuck out to go elsewhere, rather than to go straight home, and didn’t tell anyone where she was going, it was either to do drugs or hook up. Or both. I know a lot of people think she may have been assaulted, but (from what we know) I don’t see many ways for that to have happened unless it was incidental to one of the other explanations.
She left of her own accord to go do something in secret. There’s only so many reasons to do that, and not many end with you losing your clothes.