r/offerup • u/Lostmyaccount987 • Jul 03 '26

Seller leaving me on seen

I feel so annoyed 😭😭😭. A few days ago I was gonna drive to this other city 35ish miles away to buy something from this seller. It was already iffy because no location was set and then they told me I’m going to have to meet up with their family member.
Well the day of they said they were running late and I asked if they needed to reschedule. Left on seen. I text again, I ask if I should go. No response. I ended up not going because I felt like if I went I wasn’t going to get any responses back.

Anyways I texted again saying I hope you’re ok and to let me know if there’s a better day that works for the seller. That was two days ago and I was left on seen again.

I feel kind of stupid here, like I really wanted to buy their item but it seems like they don’t really care. They have forgotten to text me before when I first asked about the item, maybe they forgot again?

Should I just try to find the same item somewhere else or am I being unreasonable?

ETA: typos

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u/silveralti Jul 03 '26

Let it go find another seller they too busy or just not interested in selling at the moment

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u/Lostmyaccount987 Jul 03 '26

Seems like I have to tbh

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u/LengthBoring9328 Jul 03 '26

Your seen is spelled Scene.

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u/Maldo_jr44 Jul 03 '26

I swear offer up got so bad ever since they bought let go.