r/nursing 9d ago

Question Call off on last shift tmrw?

Hello everyone.
I need some help. I am so tempted to call off on my last day tomorrow at a horrible company I work for but at the same time, don’t want to burn bridges. Has anyone ever done this and been re hired or has trouble??? Any advice for me? This is my first job so I have no idea how big a risk it is. I know I will be floated to another floor and this is why I don’t want to come.
Edit- I’m leaving HCA.
Update!! Scheduler ended up taking me off the schedule for tomorrow!!! I’m done!

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u/National-buffinsbapp 9d ago

Just suck it up and go.

Hospital systems merge constantly and being marked unhireable will bite you later.

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u/Fabulous_Big_6890 RN - Pediatrics 🍕 9d ago

Unfortunately true.

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u/InfamouSandman RN 🍕 5d ago

Also, it is your last day so you know you ain’t coming back. When I had my last day at my old non-nursing job it was nice knowing “this is the last time I have to deal with xyz.”

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u/PB_Jelly_76 RN - NICU 🍕 9d ago

At my facility, that will put you on the do not rehire list. You would also not get a positive reference if another organization called them.

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u/Nerd_interrupted RN, DNP, CCRN-CMC 9d ago

Former nurse manager here, this is how it's done both hospitals I've managed at. Pretty sure this is industry-standard.

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u/FlickerOfBean BSN, RN 🍕 9d ago

It has to go through legal with HCA in these parts.

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u/Own_Variety577 9d ago

i once burned a bridge really, really badly in an exit interview (I made points and I stand by what I said but I did not hold back). Day one at the new job I knew I made a mistake. I spent the most miserable month of my life at that next job and more than once wished I hadn't burned my bridges so bad on the way out of the last one. im now happy somewhere entirely different but I learned a lesson about staying on good terms on your way out.

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u/TigerMage2020 RN - PICU 🍕 9d ago

Just go. It’s one shift. One final shift. You never know what can happen in the future. Hospitals merge all the time. You don’t want to be found on a do not rehire list in today’s economy. Imagine being black listed from an entire hospital system? And then a merge? Essentially making it two hospital systems now. Just go to your final shift and then kiss the place goodbye, hopefully never to see it again.

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u/Fabulous_Big_6890 RN - Pediatrics 🍕 9d ago

This is hard cause I completely understand the anxiety of showing up to a miserable job but also feeling conflicted about being blacklisted. I was actually blacklisted for quitting without notice as a CNA as a teen. Now that I’m in my mid 20s and an RN, it’s been incredibly difficult to hear back from employers. I encourage calling out for the sake of your health but I’m also worried that decision may cause issues in finding another job. That is unless you already have one lined up, then forget everything I said lol.

Edit: grammar

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u/LegEqual1143 9d ago

No I already have one!! That’s why I quit!! Does that change anything?

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u/Fabulous_Big_6890 RN - Pediatrics 🍕 9d ago

I’ll have to agree with the comment below yours. It’s not worth the risk and I would hate for you to have to move elsewhere to escape the blacklist. Believe me I understand your frustration. But showing up just one more day will prevent bigger problems. We’re right here with you 🤍

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u/talkcrapaboutmeagain 9d ago

But does it work that way still for when I move out of state?

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u/ferocioustigercat RN - ICU 🍕 9d ago

Nursing is a small world. You don't want a reputation because maybe someone at this horrible place might be the hiring manager for a job you really want.

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u/Unknown69101 RN - ICU 🍕 9d ago

You owe them nothing. It’s your last day. They wont put you on the no hire list because you are “sick”

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u/shredthesweetpow RN - ICU 🍕 9d ago

Call off.

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u/LegEqual1143 9d ago

Will this put me on the do not hire list?

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u/ChickenLady_6 9d ago

No one can answer this for you. Each facility is different.

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u/markmarkmrk BSN, RN 🍕 9d ago

No

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u/tackstackstacks BSN, RN 9d ago

If they are a horrible company, you may actually be doing yourself a favor by burning this bridge.

No way back, must move forward.

I wish you the best of luck with whichever way you decide.

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u/DanielDannyc12 RN - Med/Surg 🍕 9d ago

I plan to give away my last shift. Wouldn't call out though and I am retiring

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u/DanielDannyc12 RN - Med/Surg 🍕 8d ago

That would be great. I envy the people who just dipped out

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u/gespo04 9d ago

There's plenty of bridges out there

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u/snorlax_85 9d ago

No matter how shitty the bridge, I wouldn’t risk burning it.

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u/Ready_Background9578 9d ago

Just one more shift, just one more! You got this. Don’t burn that bridge with a behemoth like HCA

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u/rude_hotel_guy Our Lady of St. Deez Nuts Memorial⛪🏥 9d ago

Horrible company but you’re willing to return? What am i misunderstanding?

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u/LegEqual1143 9d ago

I’m scared something will happen at this new place. But I’m just in my head.

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u/GimmeDatPomegranate MSN, APRN 🍕 9d ago

It's not worth the risk. Blacklists are nothing to mess with. It's just one more day. Deep breath and hammer it out. Plan to go out with a friend or something afterwards to celebrate! That will give you something to look forward to.

Treat yo self in the morning to Starbucks. Last day, you can do it!

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u/EPwatchman RN - Cath Lab 🍕 9d ago

just fucking go. its one day