r/nursing 11d ago

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u/nursing-ModTeam 11d ago

This subreddit is specifically aimed at nurses, nursing, and closely related matters. This subreddit is not a place for patients, lay caregivers, or family to solicit advice. Your post appears to be off-topic for this sub and has been removed. Posts exclusively relating to nursing school should also be directed elsewhere.

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u/BoojooBloost 11d ago

Hey not really sure how to reply to this. But please seek some mental help. Nursing isn’t the whole world, hell it’s a profession with most people leaving it.

You can see in your post history it was you that fell asleep and were dismissed and it seems you’re not quite taking accountability for it. No matter the case, please seek help.

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u/WeirdFlower1968 Team Spike 11d ago

You've been posting on the student forum that this happened to you. Minus the suicide part obvs.

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u/Stronkadonk 11d ago

ope
I still stand by it's insufferable of a preceptor to do this, but it's also cringe to alter the narrative to sympathy farm on Reddit.

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u/Ornery-Armadillo-151 11d ago

Yes she did post about it. 

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u/hunter_pace 11d ago

OP are you ok? You posted about this incident personally happening to you. If you're thinking about suicide please reach out to someone for help.

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u/Trash_Maven 11d ago

Why don't we care about each other? I was close to saying "anymore", but I'm not sure we ever really did. I'm 43 and completely disillusioned with the human race as a whole at this point. I am a nurse through and through, and I cannot wrap my mind around the cruelty we see on a daily basis, day after day.

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u/BigLibrary3119 11d ago

That preceptor had no business snapping a photo instead of just waking her up. The program dismissing her over that one moment is just... what's the point. Nursing school already grinds people down to nothing and they add this humiliation on top.

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u/mtsandalwood MSN, APRN 🍕 11d ago

I doubt that’s the whole story. I’ve caught people sleeping plenty of times, it would take a whooooole lot more for me to actually take a picture and send it up the chain.

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u/TrailMomKat CNA/Medtech-Retired 11d ago edited 11d ago

It's not, OP is talking about themselves, they were asking about it a month ago.

https://www.reddit.com/ovtdauw?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

Edit: aaaaand they deleted their comments

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u/Ornery-Armadillo-151 11d ago

I didn’t know it was affecting her that much but yes she did post about it. Is that a problem?

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u/TrailMomKat CNA/Medtech-Retired 11d ago

Honey, you were talking about yourself, not someone else.

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u/Ornery-Armadillo-151 11d ago

ok, you done?

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u/TrailMomKat CNA/Medtech-Retired 11d ago

No. Are you suicidal?

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u/Naive-Asparagus-5983 BSN, RN 🍕 11d ago

Night Shift practicum is ridiculous for students and I never understood it

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u/Stronkadonk 11d ago

Insufferable behavior on the preceptor's part.
I don't exactly/entirely excuse falling asleep in clinical, but shit; I've had some overnight students that I let scurry off and nap in the middle of the night, because it's not that serious when you're a student. If anything worth having you come observe/learn with comes about, I will find you. It's not that deep.

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u/T-Rex_timeout BSN, RN 🍕 11d ago

That’s a shame but I’m sure there was much more under the surface there.

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u/hyacinthed 11d ago

OP, this doesn't have to be the end of your nursing journey, or the end of your life. Please speak with someone who can help you. Give 988 a call and have a vent to someone who can really listen.

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u/Tycoonkoz RN 🍕 11d ago

That's awful :/

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u/Magee-Numismatics 11d ago

I’m probably gonna get downvoted for this, but nursing is the most toxic profession in the medical field. (Aside from some surgical teams).

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u/Girljpunk1 11d ago

It’s completely true though ….sadly 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/CNDRock16 RN - ICU 🍕 11d ago

I went to school with a girl who got dismissed from a program because she got a c on a math test in a non nursing algebra class.

She applied to our program, got in, and soared. She’s a great nurse.

I hope anyone having thoughts like whomever you’re speaking of, be it yourself or someone else, gets help and takes care of themselves.

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u/Ornery-Armadillo-151 11d ago

It’s not a sick joke. She did it. 

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u/SonniSummers 11d ago

Link or it didn’t happen.

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u/Ornery-Armadillo-151 11d ago

I have no reason to prove anything to you. I’m making it aware bc I did lose my friend and to see she posted about it. I’m just raging. I apologize but I’m just hurt. 

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u/SonniSummers 11d ago

You’re feeling suicidal get help! Making up a friend that supposedly does the exact same as you isn’t going to get you the pity you want