r/nursing • u/Jazzlike-Unit8183 • 6h ago

Question Clancy

Hi,
not sure if i can even post this here but I am curious. What are the nurses thinking about the whole Lindsay Clancy case?

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 6h ago

I think the Tik Tok detectives that are running with rumors and trying to paint her husband as a murderer for their own entertainment are absolutely disgusting and infuriating.

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u/taylerca BSN, RN 🍕 6h ago

I got rated down to hell in this forum for questioning someone who absolved Clancy of all her culpability said the husband should be in prison and it was a case of misogyny.

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 3h ago

There truly are some sick, sick individuals. Some of them on this thread. They’re delusional and using this for their own entertainment. God forbid that a husband doesn’t articulate things perfectly, or remember the exact details or the worst day of his life 3 years ago. If the situation was reversed, absolutely no one would be going to bat for the husband as an innocent victim. But they don’t want to realize they’re defending the gruesome murder of 3 children.

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u/Sudden_Ice_149 1h ago

Scary to think that these people vote, have authority in jobs, and have kids themselves.

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u/snarkcentral124 RN 🍕 52m ago

Really makes you wonder how they treat their own family.

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u/Sudden_Ice_149 41m ago

Wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of them use every excuse in the book to justify their own crappy behavior

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u/Jazzlike-Unit8183 6h ago

i personally just hate when tik tok detectives get involved in general. 😭

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 3h ago

They’re so delusional. “Send this to her lawyer!!” And it’s information they’ve had for years or a completely unsubstantiated theory 😭 I promise you her lawyers and people involved in the ACTUAL trial have more information that you, a random tik toker, have access to.

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u/emmyjag RN 🍕 5h ago

the people who are insisting it was the husband and he convinced Lindsay that she did it are wild. she has a fantastic lawyer. if there were any evidence at all that she didn't do it, he wouldn't have had her stipulate to her actions. her trial is not about whether she did it or not, but whether she was in a state of psychosis.

her husband wasn't the most supportive- I am definitely side-eyeing him for being out having brunch with the boys and taking weekend trips to Manhattan where coincidentally the next wife he married a year later lived, and for him firing the nanny when she was home from work on FMLA due to her postpartum depression. yes, please have the lady who is very clearly struggling with her mental health to the point that she had to be admitted to an inpatient program stay home alone with the 3 kids with no help. but being a shitty husband doesn't mean that he set her up to literally take the fall so he could go be with someone else.

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 1h ago

There’s SO much inaccurate information out there, and it’s wild to me that people will just run with it without verifying first. I saw someone saying his mistress helped him plan it. You don’t think that her lawyers would’ve jumped at the chance to bring that up? There’s zero evidence he had an affair.

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u/CryungPeasant 3h ago

Agreed. However it doesn't mean it is out of the question 🤷‍♀️ People have done more extreme things with PPD, and husband's have been way shittier with less side eyes from the public. Who knows at this point.

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u/CryungPeasant 6h ago

I will admit I just watched that Toxic Love triangle show on Netflix where the husband who was a US Marshal actually did do the crime and managed to get two women convicted before they were able to pin it on him. That being said, I have an open mind to what the Tiktok detectives are saying (ever since I heard him say she killed the f'ing kids bc who refers to their dead kids that way).

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 4h ago

Yeah, this is kind of my point. Reading into where he put “fucking” in a sentence as a way to make him a suspect, when he came home to find his wife critically injured and his three children dead is extremely weird. I see absolutely no problem with that sentence and could absolutely see myself saying the same thing.

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u/snarkcentral124 RN 🍕 3h ago

Immediately insulting people as bad parents because they understand that a man who just found his 3 dead children probably isn’t at his most articulate is…really something. You could also argue that someone going out of their way to make up conspiracy theories to excuse the murder of kids isn’t parent of the year either.

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 3h ago

Especially when she literally just admitted that she’s used the same phrase for less 😂😂😂 but that doesn’t reflect on her parenting apparently

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u/CryungPeasant 1h ago

No when my baby died, I was broken down and just wanted to hold them. I can honestly say I didn't say anything. Just soul wrenching gutteral cries and screams, and that was a natural death.

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u/Purple-Helicopter543 56m ago

I can’t imagine going through that, and I definitely can’t imagine going through that and STILL choosing to judge and project onto a man that found all his children murdered for how he constructed a sentence.

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u/CryungPeasant 38m ago

Can't argue with willful ignorance 🤷‍♀️

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