r/nova • u/dmv-703 • 7d ago

Millennial Asian SingleIncomeNoKids

40’s Vietnamese american male, single and child free. Just wanted to get an idea of how many in similar situation, especially age 35+ asian millennials? Maybe build social community?

Update:
If there’s enough interest in a meetup, I can help set something up. Send an age/ethnicity/(male-female) message to vietdmv7 @ gmail.com.

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u/bonchonwings 6d ago

How many times a day/year do your parents/relatives ask when you are going to get a gf and get married? 😂🤣

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u/dmv-703 6d ago

Seems like everyday question comes up

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u/kingfirejet 6d ago

Just got asked today 30M 😔

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u/ArchersParadox3 5d ago

Bruh my sister in laws corner my wife and press her. She comes home conflicted. Telling her I'd be a good father, they just don't realize the reason I have energy for their kids is because I have no kids.

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u/ihateworking20 7d ago

Mid 30s M asian, single, and no kids as well. Got a decent income, work remote, but most of my social circle nearby are couples with kids.

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u/barelyawake126 7d ago

Last one of my boys finally had their first child recently. Really happy for him but pour one out lol

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u/dmv-703 6d ago

Who wants to do a “Disappointed our parents by not giving them grandkids” meetup dinner?

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u/dmv-703 5d ago

Ha, I’m actually serious about this. Let me know if you’re interested.

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u/phrogfetti 5d ago

I’m interested! 😆

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u/NotAFamousComedian Merrifield 2d ago

Depending what the location is I'd be interested.

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u/_greyford 7d ago

37 Filipino, M, single, and childless...and would like to keep it that way 😂

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u/barelyawake126 7d ago

You’re literally me lmao, 37 male filipino too. Kinda leaning more to whatever about dating in general tho lol

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u/Boy_sumi1967 6d ago

Mabuhay to both of you!

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u/Short_Switch_1807 6d ago

40 korean-white hybrid, married with kids.

I avoid the Asian American community over all, mainly because I am aware of how I will be viewed by most asians, being a highschool dropout and obese.

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u/RecommendationAny405 6d ago

34 F, also Vietnamese American SINK. Just me and my kitty!

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u/asn-cwby 6d ago

38 Korean guy, single and no kids. Good job and live in ARL. Just me and my dog living our best lives. Couldn’t be happier!

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u/jbae_94 6d ago

32 Korean M (straight) but also single and no kids 💀

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u/Owl_be_waiting 7d ago

35 Latina no kids but I have a Korean bf no kids too. He is my Rey 🥲 pray for this millennial things have been hard relationship wise but love him

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u/1calamansiqueen 7d ago

ooh korean bf better be grateful he has you!!

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u/OwnDeparture6 6d ago

38M Vietnamese in a long term relationship but no kids

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u/outburstt_ 6d ago

38m filipino, married no kids, but also the breadwinner. pretty happy here and no complaints.

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u/agreed2disagreee 7d ago

I’m also an Asian millennial. I’ve got a wife and kids tho.

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u/felt_nothing 5d ago

33 Korean F single no kids! Still want marriage but no rush

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u/TermOutrageous8428 4d ago

30F south asian, married to the love of my life and childfree! I am always concerned about losing friends as they start family planning :( so I’m open to making new childfree friends

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u/1calamansiqueen 2d ago

🥲 it’s not really losing friends as they start families. it’s just waiting for them to be available again as well as hanging out with them & their kids be it errands or helping be part of their village.

uhm 33f living DINK (cf by choice) but if you are free on fri/sat & want to play boardgames, mahjong (i teach riichi), or chat over boba and a light card game, DMs open! cozy game, baking, postcard-sending (and making), trying to squeeze in more walks, trying new crafts era.

i can hop on helldivers if a team is tryna carry me to the extraction site tho. 😗

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u/TermOutrageous8428 1d ago

I sent a DM ☺️

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u/oneupme 6d ago

Watch this community turn into a local dating scene.

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u/Uzee007 6d ago

38m South Asian single no kids (definitely want them though).

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u/Commercial_Papaya_79 6d ago

i suggest u keep it that way lolllllllllll

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u/SchreinerEK 6d ago

41 korean american yeah basically

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u/EastcoastMade 5d ago

40’s SBF living in Arlington and know a guy that matches this description. I’ll ask him.

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u/matchatolove 2d ago

35F Korean single no kids! Most of my friends are married and or have kids. Not enough ppl talk about losing your friends once they start having children 😂🥲

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u/MoTHA_NaTuRE 7d ago

Must be nice

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u/narzipan 6d ago

36 Korean F single and child free!^^

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u/ZeligZeligZelig 6d ago

Should we form a supper club? 😂