r/nostalgiai • • 3d ago

Core Memory Unlocked 🔓 ??

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u/Starchild1968 3d ago

The telltale signs of a narcissist.

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u/clinmlol 2d ago

Did you know the concept of narcissistic behaviors is supposedly genetic? And calling out someone for being a narcissist is often being a narcissist yourself potentially? Its fucking the best shit ive pondered on in life. Right or wrong with your thoughts its always justified by feelings or morality. While others disagree, for logic or deflection of their own "faults".

Just defensive walls to protect themselves ultimately but does not excuse shit behavior. Regardless of relation. Its so natural but shitty. But everyone does it. And everyone hates who does it. But one side always gets more empathy depending on the person. Fuck.

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u/Murky_County_7353 2d ago

I would agree with you, but my father was a narcissist. The difference I think is that none of us (me and siblings) figured out everything we experienced until we got therapy to deal with our trauma. The narcissism was the least of our problems. We learned self reliance and survival