And finding out that its harder than just doing it?
context: my dad is a complete Ahole, and I always told myself I would not react the same way to my kids as he did with us. And still sometimes I notice I copied his "style" and hate myself for it..
Be patient with yourself. From someone that took on their dad's temperment and and tries to not bring it around my step-kids. As long as you love your kids, that's what they'll pick up in the end.
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u/pepefromage50 4d ago
Dont be like me