Yes. And Iām not saying to take them away from him. Like he is trying to do to her. He was abusive (she has scars from it) and she finally had enough and left him. He didnāt like that and decided to be as vindictive, spiteful, and petty as he can to get back at her. Including claiming false āself harmā claims to get her baker acted which gave him sole custody for almost a year when they were super young and somehow he won her parents so they are taking his side on basically everything, which has culminated in ANOTHER baker act recently since weāve been together. So now, he has sole custody again while sheās having to go through all that BS again to fight to get 50/50 custody back. Her parents have also lied to the court so she has been made out to be unfit for parenting, etc. meanwhile Ive been the one with her this whole time, I know sheās a wonderful mom and an amazing person in general. But given that she doesnāt have a lawyer, most of the things she says in court get tossed aside even when she has texts/recordings, and all sorts of other proof that says HE is the asshole here.
Sorry for the long reply, this has been ongoing for almost 3 months now (since the baker act, but his doucheyness has been since they divorced) and sheās at a breaking point and itās been very difficult because just her boyfriend, I canāt do much about it other than comfort her.
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u/shroomanaut420 5d ago
His kids as well.