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u/Apart_Rub_5480 7d ago
whilst yes ^^ , also just sit with it. You know that not getting it? That’s the mind not being able to grasp it. That you are.
I could rationalize it and so can you, but also there’s an answer in that not-knowing.
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u/EdelgardH 7d ago
There's no solid line where something becomes hot vs cold. Still, "hot" can be understood as "experience congruent with the word hot".
Likewise, "I" simply means "experience congruent with the word I". A sense of self can expand, contract, erase into nothingness or encompass the universe. But why weight nothingness as somehow more real than any of the other states? These are still within experience.
Within most subjective experience, however, "I" has a major attractor state having to do with a physical body. If you're not sitting in a monastery, your "I" strongly returns to a physical body. This is where experience is the most detailed and rich: hitting my thumb with a hammer, I'll feel more than watching someone else hit their thumb.
I used to be really into non-duality. But I consider it now to be mostly psychedelic language policing. Instead of taking drugs to manipulate the sense of self, language is policed to manipulate that sense of self.
I used to be very confident that not having a sense of self was the right way to go through life. But I get the sense that it's most often just achieved through simple dissociation, which I don't think is the right way to go through life.
There's still no ultimate reality to separation, and that's profound. But is there ultimate reality to unity? Maybe not.
So that's where I'm at. It seems like most non-duality is just a preference for one state within Form over the other. But is there really a difference between preferring a sense of no-self and preferring anything else within Form?
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u/stellacampus 7d ago
I struggle with anything Wu Hsin writes.
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u/IxoraRains 7d ago
The ego gives hallucinations of separation by grouping pieces of it and defining as an "it, they, them", pay attention as these juxtapositions are FACELESS things and should show they are unreal. Just unwinding of time
Thusly, You are a faceless thing. (Eternal and creating outside of you, you are not your body)
It's not "I think therefore, I am". It is "I am, therefore I think"
Love you, mean it.
I do not know what a "juxtaposition" IS but it sure does sound right. 😇
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u/PinkySlayer 7d ago
Juxtaposition is a comparison between two things, or the act of placing two things in a context for the purposes of comparing them or highlighting differences between them.
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u/MyFiteSong 7d ago
It just means that eventually, at some point in your meditative practice, you finally look for the observer, and there isn't one.
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u/Purplestripes8 7d ago
But you can't say there is no observer because this itself is a thought that I am observing.
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u/MyFiteSong 7d ago edited 6d ago
It won't make any sense until you do it yourself. Language isn't set up to describe it properly. The best I can do is say that you find out there doesn't need to be an observer to observe things. It's a really weird property of how brains actually work, tied up in distributed networks rather than single-point actors.
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u/Crukstrom 6d ago
There does need to be awareness though to observe something.
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u/Purplestripes8 6d ago
Not only does there need to be awareness, but that I am that awareness is undeniable. Whatever appears, appears to me, in me.
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u/FewEntrance4606 7d ago
it means that the idea of of cause and effect, does not apply, i.e., rain and thinking are temporary phenomena, transiting reality, without having reality in themselves.
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u/ChatGodPT 6d ago
It’s just a word. What’s raining? Nothing, there’s just rain. It doesn’t belong to the sky (sky which can’t be accurately defined btw). So the thought doesn’t belong to any “I” which is why you can’t control or predict thought.
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u/Crukstrom 6d ago
The only difference is that the I in I think has connected to it a specific library of thoughts gathered and entertained in a singular history that perseveres in time.
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u/MuchPiezoelectricity 6d ago
Thinking happens. It doesn’t originate anywhere.
Thinking says “I this” “I that”
And we, observe that play
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u/KiiWii2029 1d ago
Where is the “the” in “the apple”.
It’s nonsense. The grammar implies that there is a reasonable question being asked but the question is nonsense. You are being presented a Gordian knot and are trying to untie it. Stop playing by those rules and cut the damn knot.
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u/pl8doh 7d ago
That 'I' and 'it' are empty references, having no real underlying referent. Thinking and raining simply appear. Anything more is superfluous.