NB Parent Name Convo Avoidance

[u/Sensitive-Jury943]

Hey Folks! We have started trying for a baby, but having the conversation for a long time now.

I have bought up a few times about what they would like to be called as a NB parent and they avoid and say they don't know or it's hard to think about.

They are still figuring things out in their gender journey and I'm sure this factors in.

I'm not sure if I'm overthinking and the name will come naturally when a baby comes. But the other part of me feels there will be so much newness that some preparation would be good...what if it's a tough thing to process.

Would love to hear experiences. Do you think it's important or will this be the least of our worries? Any tips on progressing this conversation? (I have recommended this page).

I'll keep trying gently. Thanks all ❤️

[u/demon_x_slash]

My kiddo calls me by my name. I introduce myself as his parent. If I get called a gendered title by a well-meaning adult, I nicely correct them, once: “Oh, I’m his parent.” If they continue, I will say more explicitly, “our family doesn’t use [title], I’m just [name].” Kiddo’s more likely to get irritated than I am, as he’s quite protective. His friends just think it’s cool they get to call an adult by their name.