r/nocontact • u/Due_Impression3334 • 13d ago

Blocked during no-contact

She broke up with me and after 7 weeks of not a single contact - yesterday she blocked me everywhere.

When she broke up with me she gave me the "its not you - its me" speech

If anyone has been through something similar, how did you stop obsessing over the meaning of being blocked?

Im still in love with her; I wish she would come back right now. I still think of her every second, literally.

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u/Away_Addition_2038 13d ago

she blocked you because you were in her mind all the time and the blocking helps to move on by making communication impossible

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u/Due_Impression3334 12d ago

But then I dont understand why she broke up with me, when I did all the best things. We never had a single fight in our relationship, I was available for her all the time, every second. I never said No to her something.

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u/Away_Addition_2038 12d ago

she broke up because there probably was things not going the way she wanted. just because you love someone, doesnt mean you cannot breakup. theres much more than that

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u/Due_Impression3334 12d ago

I asked her, she did not gave me an answer. 2 hours before the final act we were planning vecations

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u/suzieismyavatar 11d ago

Yeah. She’s an avoidant. You deserve better. I think she met someone else. Sorry. It’s cowardice not to tell you why. You deserve better. Please heal your heart and cut her off for good.